Dear God,
Today I felt the pull again.
You know what I’m talking about—that tug in my heart when I saw someone online unboxing their designer shoes, or when I passed by the display window with the newest iPhone glowing like it was made of light from Heaven itself (spoiler: it’s not). It’s that tiny whisper that says, “If only you had that, you’d feel more complete.”
But today… I confronted it.
Not with bitterness. Not with shame. But with truth. With Scripture. With love. And with the awareness that materialism is a trap that tries to take what God has already given me—peace, joy, and identity—and exchange it for plastic, fabric, and pixels.
So this entry is both a reminder for myself and maybe a word for anyone who might read this one day: Materialism is a temptation, but it is not stronger than the God who lives in us.
The Debate: Is Wanting More Always Wrong?
Let me be clear—owning things isn’t a sin. The problem isn’t the things—it’s the thirst.
It’s when desire becomes dependence.
It’s when convenience becomes coveting.
It’s when God’s provision isn’t “enough” anymore because the world’s glitter looks more appealing than His glory.
I’ve heard the argument before:
“What’s wrong with wanting nice things? God wants us to prosper!”
And yes, that’s partly true—God is a God of abundance (John 10:10). But His definition of abundance isn’t luxury; it’s life. His blessings are meant to be tools, not idols.
Luke 12:15 cuts right to it:
“Watch out! Be on your guard against all kinds of greed; life does not consist in an abundance of possessions.”
So, no—it’s not wrong to have things. But it is dangerous to let things have us.
The Emotional Weight of Always Wanting More
Materialism feeds on dissatisfaction.
It thrives in a heart that’s forgotten to say, “Thank You, Lord.”
Have you noticed how quickly joy fades after buying something new?
That dopamine hit? That little rush? It’s fleeting. The shoes get scuffed. The phone gets outdated. The couch gets coffee stains.
But the lie lingers: “Next time, next thing—then you’ll be happy.”
That cycle is exhausting. And sadly, it’s so easy to fall into it—even as a Christian.
But God didn’t call us to strive endlessly for more. He called us to rest in Him.
1 Timothy 6:6–8 says:
“But godliness with contentment is great gain. For we brought nothing into the world, and we can take nothing out of it.”
That verse is a whole sermon. Everything I “own” is temporary. But my relationship with Jesus? That’s eternal. That’s treasure.
How I’m Choosing to Fight Back
I won’t pretend it’s easy. Fighting materialism in a culture built on it is like trying to stay dry in the rain without an umbrella. But God gave us a few:
1. Gratitude is My Umbrella
I try every day to thank God for what I already have. Not just the “big” stuff like shelter or food (though those are HUGE blessings!), but the little things:
- Clean water
- My morning coffee
- A call from my mom
- The way the sky looked today
Gratitude turns the volume down on materialism. It reminds my soul, “God is already enough.”
2. I Set Boundaries With My Spending
I’ve made a budget. I actually pray over it. (I know that sounds nerdy, but it works!)
Each month I ask God to help me steward what He’s given me wisely. I don’t spend money just because I feel bored, sad, or “less than.” I ask myself, “Is this purchase trying to fix an emotional or spiritual hole?”
Because only Jesus can do that.
Proverbs 21:20 reminds me:
“The wise store up choice food and olive oil, but fools gulp theirs down.”
A fool gulps. A wise woman prays, plans, and pauses.
3. I Focus On Eternal Investments
You know what feels better than buying something new? Giving something away.
I’ve found so much joy in donating clothes, blessing someone with a meal, or tithing to my church. It’s a quiet kind of thrill—the kind that lasts.
Jesus said in Matthew 6:19–21:
“Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth… But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven… For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.”
My heart belongs in Heaven. So that’s where I want my investments to go.
A Gentle Confrontation for My Fellow Christians
With love—and I mean real, Christ-like love—I want to challenge anyone who feels that ache to constantly buy, upgrade, or show off:
Ask yourself: Why am I doing this?
- Is it to impress someone?
- Is it because you’re bored?
- Is it because something inside feels empty?
Be honest. Not harsh, but honest. Honesty is where healing begins.
And remember: The world teaches us to collect. Jesus teaches us to connect.
With people. With Him. With purpose.
A Prayer for the Material-Weary Soul
Heavenly Father,
You know how easy it is to get caught up in wanting more. We’re surrounded by messages telling us we need to buy, upgrade, and consume. But You call us to something higher—a life of contentment, generosity, and joy in You.
Please guard my heart from the lie that things will make me happy. Teach me to be grateful. Teach me to budget with wisdom. And teach me to invest in what really matters—people, purpose, and Your presence.
Forgive me when I fall into temptation. And help me walk in the freedom You promised.
In Jesus’ name, Amen.
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You are not what you own.
You are not behind if you don’t have the “latest.”
You are not less valuable if your car isn’t new or your home isn’t Pinterest-perfect.
You are loved by a God who gave everything—not so you could have more stuff, but so you could have life.
I’m choosing that life every day. And even when it’s hard… it’s worth it.
The Christian Tech-Nerd 
So good! We must move to the simpler life where we own our things. They don’t own us.
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