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Women Belong in The Kitchen: Embracing My God-Given Role in a World on the Brink

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The kettle is whistling and the bread just came out of the oven. The warmth of the stove wraps around me like a blanket, and the quiet is a comfort — not a curse. The world outside may be in chaos, but in here, peace still reigns. Not because I have it all figured out, but because I know who holds the future.

Even though I live alone for now — no husband, no children — I live as if they’re already part of my life. Because one day, if the Lord wills, they will be.

“Delight yourself in the Lord, and He will give you the desires of your heart.”
— Psalm 37:4

And I do desire marriage. I desire to serve a husband. To raise children in truth. To be a keeper of the home who is clothed in strength and dignity — not caught in the world’s confusion about what it means to be a woman.

I don’t see the kitchen as a prison. I see it as a place of preparation and power. It’s where I practice serving, sacrificing, and sustaining life. Even now — even just for myself — I treat every meal I prepare, every space I tend, every routine I build, as an offering. Because this is not about me. It’s about being faithful in the waiting.

“She rises while it is yet night and provides food for her household.”
— Proverbs 31:15

I want to be ready when God calls me into marriage — not just emotionally or spiritually, but practically. I want to know how to feed, nurture, support, and follow my future husband with grace and strength. And I want to raise children who know truth from lies, who see joy in discipline and purpose in obedience.

“Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.”
— Proverbs 22:6

The world is falling apart. The news grows darker every day. And while people stock up on weapons and solar panels, I’m stocking up on wisdom, discipline, and love. Because survival is about more than having a pantry full of food. It’s about knowing how to create peace in a storm — and that starts in the home.

So yes, I belong in the kitchen. Not because I have to — but because I choose to be a woman who nurtures life. It’s where I’ll minister to my family. It’s where I’ll teach lessons, dry tears, fill empty bellies, and pray over every plate.

“The wise woman builds her house, but with her own hands the foolish one tears hers down.”
— Proverbs 14:1

I’m not foolish. I know what’s coming. And I want to be ready in spirit and skill when the world expects women to be helpless and hopeless.

Prayer
Father, thank You for creating me with purpose. Thank You for showing me that womanhood is not weakness, but strength of a different kind — softer, deeper, and holy. Help me to become the kind of wife who blesses her husband all the days of his life. Make me diligent in this season of waiting — to work, learn, and worship in private, unseen ways. Let this home be a training ground for the life You’re preparing me for. Amen.

Sometimes I think of my future husband. I wonder what he’s doing tonight. Maybe he’s chopping firewood or reading the Word by lamplight like I am. Maybe he’s praying for a woman who will walk beside him without questioning his leadership or trying to take it from him.

I pray I’ll be the answer to that prayer.

“Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church…”
— Ephesians 5:22–23

That verse is not a burden to me. It’s a comfort. I want a husband I can trust to lead — and I want to be the kind of woman he can trust to follow without resistance. Because that kind of order isn’t outdated. It’s biblical. It brings peace, not confusion.

And I know the world rolls its eyes at women like me. They think we’re brainwashed, repressed, afraid. But I’ve never felt more free. Free from the pressure to compete, to climb, to prove myself by the world’s standards. I know who I am — and whose I am.

“Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.”
— Proverbs 31:30

So tonight, I light my candles. I pray over my future table. I fold my laundry with care and organize my shelves because this is my calling. Even now, without a husband to serve or children to raise, I am living the life of a God-honoring woman in training.

Prayer
Lord, prepare me to be a wife and mother who walks in wisdom, patience, and deep love. Teach me to lay down selfish ambition and pick up quiet faithfulness. Let me serve now with joy, knowing that You see everything done in secret. Bless my future husband, wherever he is tonight. Strengthen him to lead. Teach him to love. And when the time is right, bring us together in Your perfect plan. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

This is enough for tonight. The stew is cooling and the world is still turning. But my heart is full. Because even in this quiet season, I know I’m becoming exactly the kind of woman I was made to be.

And when the time comes — when God brings my family — I won’t just be ready. I’ll be grateful.

What Atheists Miss About the Power of Grace

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Dear Heavenly Father,

Tonight, I found myself thinking about forgiveness—not the kind that’s easy or expected, but the deep, hard kind that stretches our hearts beyond what feels humanly possible. The kind Jesus spoke about so often, and the kind so many people in today’s world seem to misunderstand or overlook entirely.

There’s an old saying I’ve heard more than once: “Holding onto anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die.” It’s powerful, and painfully true.

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I see it all the time around me—people who are hurting and don’t know how to heal. People who’ve been wronged, abandoned, betrayed, or deeply wounded, and instead of processing the pain and laying it before the Lord, they hold it tightly, like it’s somehow protecting them. But in reality, it’s just making them more bitter, more broken, and more distant from the peace they’re actually craving.

What some atheists—or really, anyone outside the hope of Christ—don’t often realize is that forgiveness isn’t about letting the offender off the hook. It’s about freeing your own heart from the chains of resentment. Jesus didn’t teach us to forgive because it’s the easy or logical thing to do. He taught us to forgive because it’s the divine thing to do.

Matthew 6:14-15 couldn’t be clearer:
“For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.”

That’s not just a suggestion—it’s a call to action, a command rooted in the very heart of the gospel. After all, the entire message of salvation is based on forgiveness. Christ died not just to show us love, but to offer us forgiveness, even though we didn’t deserve it.

Lord, soften my heart when I want to harden it. Remind me that I have been forgiven so much more than I’ve ever been asked to forgive. Help me not to forget the cross when I’m tempted to withhold grace.

Forgiveness is hard. I won’t pretend otherwise. Sometimes it means choosing to release pain even when the person who caused it hasn’t apologized. Sometimes it means extending grace when you feel like you’re still bleeding from the wound.

But there’s healing in the obedience.

Studies—even secular ones—have shown that forgiving others can actually lower blood pressure, reduce stress, improve sleep, boost the immune system, and decrease anxiety and depression. Isn’t that amazing? Even science can’t help but testify to the power of what God designed.

But forgiveness doesn’t always come naturally. So how do we actually do it?

First, we pray.

Jesus tells us in Matthew 5:44, “But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.”
That sounds almost impossible until you try it. Because something sacred happens when you start praying for the person who hurt you. You stop seeing them as just the villain in your story, and you start seeing them through God’s eyes—a broken person, just like you, in need of grace.

Father, I lift up the people who have hurt me. I don’t always understand why they did what they did, but You do. And I trust You to heal the broken places in both of us. Soften their heart, and mine too. Help me to release this burden into Your hands.

Second, we build forgiveness into our daily walk with Christ. Forgiveness isn’t just an event—it’s a lifestyle. You don’t just forgive once and forget. You forgive over and over, even when the hurt resurfaces. You choose it like you choose to follow Jesus: day after day, moment by moment.

It takes practice, patience, and God’s power.

We’re not meant to do it alone. That’s why community matters so much. When we share our struggles with other believers, we’re reminded that we’re not weak—we’re human. And in that shared humanity, we find strength, encouragement, and accountability.

James 5:16 reminds us, “Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed.”
There is healing when we’re honest, and freedom when we walk with others who are chasing the same Christ-like heart.

And let’s be real—resentment doesn’t just affect us spiritually. It spills into everything: our relationships, our physical health, our mood, our energy, and even how we view God. If we’re not careful, bitterness can become an idol we nurse instead of a wound we surrender.

But when we forgive, we reclaim peace. When we release others from the prison of our resentment, we actually walk out of that prison ourselves.

Lord, teach me to be a forgiving woman—not out of obligation, but out of love for You. Let forgiveness become part of my character. Let it shape my words, my thoughts, my prayers. And when it feels too big for me to do alone, remind me that Your Spirit is my helper.

Forgiveness is hard, yes—but it’s worth every ounce of effort. It’s not about forgetting or pretending nothing happened. It’s about choosing not to carry the weight anymore. It’s about choosing obedience, even when it hurts. And it’s about trusting that God is the ultimate Judge and Healer.

Romans 12:19 says, “Do not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written: ‘It is mine to avenge; I will repay,’ says the Lord.”
That means we don’t have to make things right—we just have to do what’s righteous.

So tonight, I choose to forgive. Not because it feels good. Not because they said sorry. Not even because I feel strong.
But because Jesus forgave me.
Because I want to walk in freedom.
Because I want peace that only He can give.

And because holding on to bitterness just isn’t worth missing out on the beauty of grace.

With a healing heart,
A Daughter of Grace Learning to Forgive 💛

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Hey ChrisTians, Read This When YoU’RE Feeling Lonely!

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I’ve been thinking a lot about loneliness lately. It’s something that’s been weighing on my heart—not just for myself, but for so many people around me. No matter what we scroll past on Instagram or see in people’s curated lives on TikTok, there’s this quiet truth behind it all: a lot of us are lonely.

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Seriously, I know we don’t talk about it much, but it’s there. And I think it’s time we stop pretending everything’s fine when our hearts are aching.

I read a couple of studies last week that confirmed what I’ve already been sensing—loneliness is actually rising, especially among young adults. Isn’t that wild? You’d think with all the ways we’re supposedly “connected,” we’d feel more together. But instead, it feels like we’re more isolated than ever.

I think part of it started during the pandemic. When we were all stuck inside, disconnected from church, friends, family, and even just basic community rhythms like grabbing coffee or attending a Bible study in person—it did something to us. And for many people, they never really came back out. I know some girls who barely leave their apartments anymore. They say they’re “fine,” but their eyes tell another story.

And maybe the saddest part? They’re ashamed to admit it. Like saying, “I feel lonely,” means they’ve failed somehow. But the truth is, loneliness doesn’t mean you’re weak or broken. It means you’re human.

As a Christian, I just want to remind anyone reading this—and my own heart too—that we are not alone. Not ever.

Even in our loneliest moments, God is there. Psalm 34:18 says, “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” Isn’t that beautiful? We serve a God who draws near to us, especially in our weakest and loneliest places.

But I get it. Sometimes even knowing God is near doesn’t make the ache go away instantly. That’s why we have to learn how to care for ourselves in a way that reflects how He cares for us.

One of the first things I’m learning is the importance of self-compassion. And before anyone rolls their eyes and thinks, “That sounds too self-help-ish,” let me explain.

Self-compassion isn’t about being selfish. It’s about extending grace to ourselves the same way Jesus does. So many of us carry guilt and shame like it’s part of our identity. We beat ourselves up for not being more productive, more social, more… everything. We compare ourselves to people online who seem like they have it all together and then wonder what’s wrong with us.

But here’s the truth: God never called us to be perfect. He called us to be His.

In Mark 12:31, Jesus said, “Love your neighbor as yourself.” How can we love others well if we don’t even know how to love ourselves?

So I’m learning to take a breath, pray, and remind myself: It’s okay to rest. It’s okay to not have it all figured out. It’s okay to feel lonely sometimes.

Lord, help me be gentle with myself. Help me see myself the way You see me—with love, not judgment. When I feel like I’m falling short, remind me that Your grace is enough.

After practicing self-compassion, the next thing I’ve found helpful is working on my relationships.

Because the truth is—we’re made for connection. God designed us to be in community. Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 says, “Two are better than one… If either of them falls down, one can help the other up.”

I think of my closest friend, Grace. We had lost touch for a while, but after I reached out again, we started talking more and even praying together on the phone. It was awkward at first—I won’t lie. But it became a lifeline. It reminded me that even when connection feels hard or distant, it’s worth the effort to pursue it.

So if you’re feeling isolated, maybe text that friend you haven’t heard from in a while. Join a small group at church. Say hi to someone new on Sunday morning. God often brings healing through people—don’t miss the opportunity.

But here’s the thing that holds all of this together: God Himself is our truest companion.

Deuteronomy 31:6 says, “Do not be afraid or terrified… for the Lord your God goes with you; He will never leave you nor forsake you.” That verse gives me chills every time. Because no matter how quiet my phone is, or how many Friday nights I spend at home, I’m not actually alone. And neither are you.

Cultivating intimacy with God is the most beautiful remedy for loneliness. It doesn’t replace human connection, but it fills the soul in a way no one else can. Through prayer, worship, reading His Word, and simply sitting in silence with Him, I’ve learned that His presence is enough.

Jesus, thank You for always being near, even when I forget. Help me to draw closer to You when I feel unseen, unknown, or forgotten. Fill the empty places in my heart with Your love. Remind me that You are not far off, but as close as my breath.

So, dear heart, if you’re reading this and feeling like you’re the only one struggling—please know, you’re not. So many of us feel the same. But the good news is that we don’t have to stay there. There is hope, healing, and help when we turn to Jesus.

Don’t be ashamed of your loneliness. Bring it to God. Talk about it. Reach out. You were never meant to carry it alone.

Romans 8:38-39 promises us that “neither death nor life… nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.”

Not even loneliness can separate you from Him.

And that, sweet friend, is everything.

The Devil Strikes When You’re Spiritually Exhausted

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Have you ever noticed how much harder it is to resist temptation at night? I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately—especially when I find myself wandering into the kitchen at 9 or 10 p.m., looking for a “little treat.” It seems so small in the moment—a bowl of ice cream, a bag of chips, just a bite of something sweet. But behind that craving, there’s often something deeper stirring.

Why is it so hard to say no to the things we easily resist during the day?

During daylight hours, we’re alert. We have routines, structure, and usually more mental strength to make good decisions. But as the sun sets and we wind down, something shifts. That sense of control we held earlier begins to fade. And we convince ourselves that a late-night indulgence is no big deal.

But the truth is, this moment—this weariness—is exactly when the enemy whispers the loudest.

Scripture warns us about this. 1 Peter 5:8 tells us, “Be alert and of sober mind. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour.”

Satan doesn’t come after us in our strongest moments. He waits. He watches. He knows when our defenses are down—when we’re tired, overwhelmed, lonely, or distracted. He knows that by the end of the day, our willpower has been worn thin by decision fatigue, stress, and even spiritual neglect.

And he seizes those moments to strike.

Not always with something obviously sinful. Sometimes, it’s as subtle as distracting us from prayer. Pulling us toward isolation. Feeding us lies that sound like truth. Or simply luring us into habits that slowly dull our sensitivity to God’s voice.

Late-night snacking might not seem like a spiritual issue at first glance. But if we dig deeper, it reveals a pattern: the temptation to self-soothe instead of turning to God. The temptation to indulge in temporary pleasures instead of abiding in lasting peace.

We’ve all been there. And I don’t say this to bring shame—I say it to shine a light on the pattern, because darkness loses its power when it’s exposed to truth.

Ephesians 6:11 says, “Put on the full armor of God, so that you can take your stand against the devil’s schemes.”
And verses 13–17 go on to describe that armor in beautiful detail:

  • The belt of truth
  • The breastplate of righteousness
  • The shoes of the gospel of peace
  • The shield of faith
  • The helmet of salvation
  • The sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God

But armor is only useful if we actually put it on and learn to use it.

That means praying before the battle begins. That means studying the Word before temptation comes. That means preparing our minds and hearts for the spiritual fight we might not even see coming.

So often we think we’ll have the strength to resist temptation when it arises, but God calls us to prepare in advance.

Lord, teach me to wear Your armor daily. Help me recognize the enemy’s tactics—not just the obvious ones, but the subtle ones that slip in when I’m weary. Strengthen my spirit so that I won’t depend on my own strength, but on Yours. When I feel weak, remind me that You are strong.

We don’t fight this battle alone. God hasn’t left us to navigate temptation in our own power. In 2 Corinthians 12:9, the Lord says, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.”

Even when our willpower fades, His strength remains constant.

Still, we have a part to play. God gives us wisdom to build healthy habits that protect and strengthen us. Simple choices—like going to bed earlier, avoiding late-night TV that stirs unhealthy desires, or keeping our devotional time consistent—can make a big difference. Regular sleep, movement, nourishing food, and staying in community with other believers are all ways to guard our hearts and bodies.

Proverbs 4:23 reminds us, “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.”

So, when I feel those cravings creeping in late at night, I’m learning to pause and ask myself: What am I really hungry for?

Sometimes, it’s rest. Sometimes, it’s comfort. Sometimes, it’s connection or even worship. And none of those things can truly be filled with sugar or snacks or scrolling through my phone.

Only God satisfies. Psalm 107:9 says, “For he satisfies the longing soul, and the hungry soul he fills with good things.”

Jesus, You are my portion. Fill the empty places in me that I try to satisfy with temporary things. When I feel pulled toward things that aren’t good for me, remind me that You offer better. Help me build a life that honors You—even in the small, quiet choices no one sees.

I’m also reminded tonight that we are never meant to resist temptation alone. One of the greatest gifts God gives us is the Church—a community of people walking through the same struggles, cheering each other on, and holding each other accountable.

James 4:7 gives us both instruction and promise: “Submit yourselves, then, to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.”

So tonight, I submit again. My mind, my body, my heart. I surrender my weakness, my late-night cravings, my thoughts, and my routine.

And I take this moment to put on the armor. Not just for tonight, but for every battle still ahead.

Heavenly Father,
Thank You for never giving up on me. Thank You for staying close, even when I wander. Strengthen me to live for You—not just in the big moments, but in the tiny ones that build a life of faith. Help me to see temptation clearly, to resist it fiercely, and to cling to You constantly. You are my source, my hope, and my victory. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

If you’re reading this and feeling discouraged by your own areas of weakness—please know, you’re not alone. And more importantly, you are not powerless. With God, we have every tool we need to stand strong.

Let’s keep fighting the good fight—together.

Love,
A Sister in Christ, Learning to Lean on Him Night and Day 💛

Now More Than Ever: The Sacred Calling of Motherhood

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As I reflect on Mother’s Day this year, my thoughts are filled with gratitude for the incredible woman who has shaped so much of who I am—my mother. Though I’m not a mother myself yet, I see so much beauty and purpose in the role of motherhood, not just through the lens of what I’ve experienced as her daughter, but also through the understanding that it’s a sacred, soul-shaping calling designed by God. In my own life, I’ve seen firsthand how motherhood, with all of its challenges, joys, sacrifices, and blessings, is far more than “just” a job—it is part of God’s redemptive plan.

Genesis 3:16 tells us that, as a result of the fall, women would bear children “in pain and sorrow.” While this verse speaks of the reality of the struggles that come with motherhood, it also hints at the profound purpose within that pain. It is easy to view motherhood as a series of struggles, from the physical demands of pregnancy to the exhaustion of sleepless nights and the weight of trying to raise a child who walks in God’s ways. But I’ve come to understand that, as difficult as it can be, it is a pain with purpose. This purpose goes far beyond the momentary struggles—it’s the eternal impact motherhood has on shaping future generations for God’s Kingdom.

When I think of my own mother, I see how much sacrifice and love she poured into raising me and my siblings. I know that every day, she made choices that were not just for the moment, but for eternity. Proverbs 31:28 says, “Her children rise up and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her.” And I’ve done just that. I’ve risen up to praise my mom because of the sacrifices she made in raising me, even when it wasn’t easy, even when the days felt long and the challenges felt never-ending.

Motherhood is far more than just physical labor—it’s spiritual, emotional, and relational labor. It’s a divine calling that echoes God’s redemptive plan for humanity. The Bible tells us that children are a blessing from the Lord. Psalm 127:3 declares, “Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, the fruit of the womb a reward.” There is no greater privilege than the role of a mother, and my mom has shown me the depth of that calling.

I’ve seen how my mother, though not perfect, has poured out her heart, her prayers, and her love into shaping me. She’s been a living testament to the idea that motherhood is not a task of “just” raising children, but of shaping future generations—future world-changers who will carry on God’s love and truth. Every sacrifice she made, every sleepless night, every tear shed in prayer for her children—it all matters.

I am reminded of 1 Timothy 2:15, where Paul says, “But women will be saved through childbearing—if they continue in faith, love, and holiness, with self-control.” This verse isn’t about earning salvation through childbirth, but rather, it speaks to the sanctifying process of motherhood. It refines women, molding them into more patient, selfless, and faithful beings. My mom’s love for God and us has shaped who I am today, and I know that her journey of motherhood has been one of growth, faith, and reliance on God.

There’s a deep joy in motherhood, even amid the chaos. As a daughter, I see the joy my mother finds in us—even when life is messy. Nehemiah 8:10 says, “The joy of the Lord is your strength.” And I see my mom finding joy in the Lord, even in the mundane moments of motherhood. Yes, there are piles of laundry, long nights, and tough seasons, but there are also moments of pure joy—the sound of a child’s first words, the simple joy of watching them grow and learn, and the fulfillment that comes from guiding them through life’s challenges. I know my mother found joy not just in my successes, but in the very act of raising me.

I’ve also realized that while motherhood can be painful and sacrificial, it is never without purpose. God designed motherhood as a partnership with Him in bringing life into the world. As I look to the future, I believe that even when the challenges of raising children seem daunting, God has a bigger picture in mind. Isaiah 55:8-9 reminds us, “For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, declares the Lord. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts.” As mothers, we may not always see the fruit of our labor immediately, but we can trust that God is at work in the lives of our children, even when we can’t see it.

It’s clear to me now that motherhood is a calling that goes beyond a simple role—it is a sacred vocation that shapes the future. I may not yet be a mother, but I can see that the role is one of immense responsibility and profound purpose. Motherhood is a partnership with God to shape the next generation. Each mother is raising not just children, but image-bearers of God, future leaders, and world-changers.

As I reflect on my mom and all the ways she’s shaped my life, I’m reminded of Proverbs 22:6, which says, “Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.” This verse isn’t just for mothers, but for all who have influence over the next generation. The way my mom has modeled love, faith, and strength in Christ will have a ripple effect for generations to come.

So, to my beautiful mom, and to all mothers out there, I want to say thank you. Thank you for your sacrifices, your love, your patience, and for answering God’s call to raise His children. Your work matters. It’s not “just” raising children—it’s shaping the future for God’s glory.

Prayer:

Heavenly Father, thank You for the gift of motherhood and for the example of love and strength that my mother has shown me. I pray that You continue to bless all mothers, giving them the wisdom, strength, and grace they need to raise their children in Your ways. Help me to honor them and to remember the profound impact they have on shaping the future. May we all recognize the sacred calling of motherhood and trust in Your plan for our lives. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

How to Be a Shield for Your Loved Ones Through Christ

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Stress can be overwhelming. The kind that feels like the weight of the world is resting squarely on your shoulders, threatening to pull you down. I’ve been there—maybe you have too. Those moments when the pressure feels unbearable, and it’s hard to see the way forward. As Christian women, we know that life isn’t always smooth sailing. Most of us, at some point, have experienced hardship so great it nearly pulled us into the depths of despair or even depression. I hear it often in my church, as many of us carry burdens we sometimes feel are too heavy to bear alone.

But there’s good news. In those times of difficulty, there is something simple yet powerful we can do—something that not only helps those around us but also protects ourselves. That thing is support. When we lift each other up, when we reach out to those in pain, we not only help them find healing but also strengthen our own hearts in the process. As believers in Christ, we are called to be a light in the darkness. By showing God’s love and grace to others, we fulfill His command and find joy in being instruments of His peace.

The Power of Being a Light in Darkness

Jesus calls us to be a light in the world. In Matthew 5:14, He reminds us, “You are the light of the world. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden.” This is not just a command, but a calling to step out of our comfort zones and shine God’s light into the lives of those who need it most. When others around us are struggling—whether with grief, anxiety, depression, or the daily burdens of life—we are called to reflect the love of Christ and to show up for them.

I believe there is a unique power in showing up for someone during their darkest moments. It doesn’t require us to have all the answers or even say anything profound—it simply requires our presence and willingness to care. Even a small act of kindness, a listening ear, or a prayer can make a world of difference.

The Science Behind Reaching Out

It’s not just a Christian idea to help those in pain. In fact, science has long confirmed the importance of reaching out to those who are vulnerable. A study conducted by Michigan University explored the effects of social support on people prone to depression, particularly individuals who had experienced the loss of a spouse. They found that those who received support during these vulnerable times were much less likely to slip into depression than those who were isolated.

This is a powerful reminder of the impact that simply being there for someone can have on their mental and emotional health. It’s not just about offering advice or solving their problems—it’s about showing them that they are not alone. That, in itself, is a profound and life-giving gift. The love of Christ works through us in those moments of support, and it’s a reminder that we are called to be instruments of healing in each other’s lives.

Carrying Each Other’s Burdens

The Bible is full of wisdom about the importance of supporting one another. In Galatians 6:2, Paul urges us to, “Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way, you will fulfill the law of Christ.” This verse sums up the heart of Christian community. We are not meant to live in isolation; we are meant to walk alongside each other, sharing in the joys and the sorrows of life. When one of us suffers, we all suffer, and when one rejoices, we all rejoice.

It’s easy to get caught up in our own struggles and forget about those around us. But as Christians, we are called to look outside ourselves and notice the pain and needs of others. We are called to step into the messiness of life and offer help, love, and encouragement. Whether it’s a listening ear, a word of encouragement, a prayer, or a practical act of service—every little thing we do can make a difference.

Practical Ways to Lift Others Up

If you feel uncertain about how to support someone who is struggling, don’t worry. The Bible gives us plenty of examples of ways we can be there for one another. Here are some simple and practical ways to lift up those in your life who may be carrying heavy burdens:

  1. Reach Out with a Message or Phone Call
    Sometimes, just letting someone know you are thinking of them can be a lifeline. Send a text, make a phone call, or write a simple note to let them know you care. In 1 Thessalonians 5:11, we are encouraged to “encourage one another and build each other up.” A small act of reaching out can remind someone they are not alone.
  2. Listen Without Judgment
    When people are struggling, they often just need someone to listen. In James 1:19, we are reminded to be “quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry.” Sometimes the best way to help is to simply sit with someone and listen to their heart. Let them express their feelings, without feeling the need to fix everything.
  3. Offer a Prayer
    One of the most powerful ways we can support someone is through prayer. In Philippians 4:6, Paul tells us, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.” Praying for others and with them brings the peace of God into their lives and invites His healing presence.
  4. Serve with a Helping Hand
    In Galatians 6:9, we are reminded not to grow weary in doing good. If you know someone is overwhelmed with their daily responsibilities, offer practical help. Maybe you can cook a meal, help with household chores, or offer to watch their children for a few hours. Small acts of service can go a long way in showing God’s love.
  5. Encourage with Scripture
    Sometimes, the best way to encourage someone is to point them to the promises of God’s Word. Whether it’s sharing a Bible verse or sending them a Scripture card, the Word of God has the power to comfort, heal, and restore. Isaiah 41:10 reminds us, “Do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God.”

A Prayer for Strength and Support

Heavenly Father,
Thank You for Your endless love and grace. You are our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in times of trouble. I pray for my sisters in Christ who are struggling with stress, sadness, or burdens that feel too heavy to bear. Lord, surround them with Your peace and remind them that they are not alone. Use me to be a source of encouragement and support to those in need. Help me to be quick to listen, slow to speak, and eager to serve. May Your light shine through me as I walk alongside those who need Your love.
In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Conclusion: We Are Stronger Together

As Christian women, we are called to be a community of support and encouragement. When one part of the body suffers, we all suffer. But when we stand together in love and grace, we lift each other up and bring glory to God. Remember, we are stronger together. Let’s take time each day to notice the needs of those around us and offer the support, love, and care that will help them carry their burdens.

May God bless you as you continue to be a light in the darkness and a source of strength for those who need it most.

Pope Trump Isn’t Offensive To Christians, Abortion Is!

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When the World Gets It Backward: Pope Trump Meme vs. the True Offense

This morning started like most others—I brewed my coffee, opened the curtains to let in the soft morning light, and flipped on the TV for a few minutes of news while I settled into the Word. But what I saw today unsettled my spirit. A reporter—stone-faced and full of smugness—asked President Trump if he thought his “Pope Trump” social media post was offensive to Christians.

I nearly spilled my coffee.

Offensive to Christians? I wanted to yell at the screen, “No, abortion is offensive to Christians!”

I sat there stunned, not because I hadn’t heard this kind of media manipulation before, but because it still cuts deep every time they twist what matters. They mock faith with one hand and defend the killing of the unborn with the other—and then have the audacity to claim they’re standing on moral high ground?

What breaks my heart more is knowing how many people watch that same program and nod in agreement. How many people are conditioned to think that a meme or a nickname for a political leader is somehow more scandalous than the destruction of millions of innocent lives.

Lord, have mercy on us.

I felt compelled to go to the Word. I opened my Bible and landed in Proverbs 17:15, which says: “He who justifies the wicked and he who condemns the righteous are both alike an abomination to the Lord.”

And that’s what we saw on display this morning. Justification of wickedness. Condemnation of righteousness. People scandalized by sarcasm or titles—but silent about babies torn apart in the womb.

Father, awaken the conscience of this nation.

As I prayed, I thought of Isaiah 5:20: “Woe to those who call evil good and good evil, who put darkness for light and light for darkness.” How clearly we are living in those days. What is holy is mocked. What is evil is protected by law and championed by influencers.

The reporter didn’t want to talk about abortion. That would’ve been uncomfortable. That might’ve exposed the real offense. Instead, they chose to paint Christians as delicate little flowers who can’t handle satire—but the truth is, we’re not offended by posts. We’re wounded by sin. We’re grieved by murder.

I don’t think Trump calling himself “Pope Trump” was some theological statement. It was political irony. Maybe even poor taste. But certainly not the kind of moral offense that should headline a broadcast.

But abortion… oh Lord, abortion is a sin that cries out to heaven.

In Genesis 4:10, after Cain murdered Abel, God said: “The voice of your brother’s blood is crying to me from the ground.” I believe the blood of these innocent children cries to God too. And if it breaks His heart, it should break ours even more.

So I sat there, Bible in my lap, asking God to help me see clearly and not get caught up in the noise. We are surrounded by distractions—headlines, hashtags, and hollow arguments. The enemy knows if he can keep us offended by trivial things, we won’t have energy left to stand against true evil.

Dear God, give me courage to speak when I’m tempted to stay silent. Give me discernment to know what truly matters. Let me not be distracted by the theatrics of this age.

I kept praying:

“Jesus, forgive this nation. Forgive us for our silence, for our distraction, for the ways we have allowed the culture to dictate our values instead of Your Word. Let us not be ashamed of Your truth, even when it’s unpopular. Even when we’re mocked. Even when they try to cancel us. Lord, give us strength like Daniel, like Esther, like Paul. We don’t want to offend man—we want to honor You.”

After I calmed down, I realized something. The reporter’s question—while frustrating—was also a reminder. A reminder that we are not at home in this world. The media doesn’t speak our language. They don’t share our values. They don’t understand our grief. And that’s okay. We’re not called to be liked. We’re called to be faithful.

Romans 12:2 came to mind: “Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind.”

So I renewed my mind this morning. I turned off the TV and turned to prayer.

I wept. I prayed for the unborn. I prayed for our leaders. I even prayed for the reporter. And I prayed for my own heart—that I wouldn’t become bitter or jaded, but tender and ready to speak truth in love.

And now, as I write this, I feel peace.

Not because the situation is fixed. Not because the media has changed. But because Jesus is still King, and He is not silent. He sees. He knows. He will bring justice.

In the meantime, I’ll keep writing. I’ll keep praying. I’ll keep standing.

Even if they call us foolish. Even if they misrepresent our faith. Even if they say, “Christians are offended by Trump’s jokes,” while ignoring the cries of the unborn—I will not be moved.

Because the real offense is not a meme.

The real offense is the sin that separates us from God—and the apathy that lets it flourish.

Lord, forgive us. Revive us. Make us bold again.

Finding Light in Darkness: Uplifting Bible Verses for Hope

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In our lives, there are moments when darkness seems overwhelming—when grief, uncertainty, or hardship threatens to swallow our peace. During these times, it can feel as though hope is distant or even gone. But Scripture reminds us that God’s light never stops shining, even in the darkest valleys. His promises are sure, His presence is constant, and His Word offers us unshakable hope.

Let’s take a gentle journey through the Word of God, reflecting on His promises, and offering prayers for comfort, healing, and renewed hope.

1. God Is With You in the Darkness

“Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.” – Psalm 23:4 (ESV)

This beloved psalm reminds us that God doesn’t leave us when times get hard. He walks beside us. Whether you’re grieving a loss, facing uncertainty, or battling anxiety, take comfort in knowing you are not alone.

Prayer:
Lord, even in the darkest valley, I believe You are with me. Help me feel Your comforting presence. Hold my heart and strengthen my spirit. Shine Your light over my life. Amen.

2. Hope Anchored in God’s Promises

“Let us hold unswervingly to the hope we profess, for he who promised is faithful.” – Hebrews 10:23 (NIV)

Hope isn’t wishful thinking; it’s confident trust in the character of God. When everything around us is uncertain, we can stand on the rock of His Word. He is faithful. He cannot lie. What He has promised, He will fulfill.

Prayer:
God, I choose to hold tightly to the hope I have in You. When I am weary, remind me of Your faithfulness. Help me to trust Your promises even when I cannot yet see the outcome. Amen.

3. Light Always Overcomes Darkness

“The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it.” – John 1:5 (NIV)

Jesus is the light of the world, and no darkness can overpower Him. When fear, despair, or sorrow surround us, His light is stronger. Sometimes all we can do is whisper His name—and that is enough. He is near.

Prayer:
Jesus, You are the Light that darkness cannot overcome. Fill every shadowed place in my life with Your presence. Replace my fear with Your peace and my sorrow with Your joy. Amen.

4. Strength When You Feel Weak

“But those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.” – Isaiah 40:31 (NIV)

Our strength is limited, but God’s is boundless. When our own efforts fail, when we feel too tired to keep going, God invites us to wait on Him—and He promises to renew our strength.

Prayer:
Father, I am weary. I feel like I cannot take another step. But I wait on You now, and I ask You to carry me. Renew my strength. Help me to soar again, not by my power but by Yours. Amen.

5. Peace Beyond Understanding

“And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” – Philippians 4:7 (ESV)

Sometimes, peace doesn’t come from our circumstances improving—it comes from knowing God is in control, even when we are not. His peace quiets the soul and guards the heart like a shield.

Prayer:
Lord, guard my heart with Your peace. When anxiety or fear threatens to take over, help me return to Your presence. Quiet my mind. Cover me with the peace that only You can give. Amen.

6. God’s Plans Are Still Good

“‘For I know the plans I have for you,’ declares the Lord, ‘plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you a hope and a future.’” – Jeremiah 29:11 (NIV)

In seasons of waiting or pain, it can be hard to believe God still has a plan. But His Word assures us: our story isn’t over. His plans are not to harm us, but to bring us to a good and hopeful end.

Prayer:
Heavenly Father, when I can’t see the way forward, help me remember that You are writing my story. I trust Your plans, even when I don’t understand them. Guide me toward the future You’ve prepared. Amen.

7. Comfort for the Brokenhearted

“The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” – Psalm 34:18 (NIV)

Grief and sorrow are not foreign to God. He is near to those who are hurting. When your spirit is crushed, He doesn’t turn away—He leans in closer.

Prayer:
Lord, my heart is heavy. I bring You my broken pieces. Sit with me in my pain and begin the healing only You can bring. I trust You to comfort me and restore joy in time. Amen.

Final Encouragement

Dear friend, if you’re walking through darkness today, remember this: you are not walking alone. God is still with you. His Word is alive, and His light still shines. Take each verse and prayer into your heart. Read them aloud. Meditate on them. Let them become your lifeline.

Sometimes hope doesn’t arrive all at once—it grows slowly like the dawn, one ray at a time. Keep looking up. Keep seeking Him. The darkness will lift. Light is coming.

“May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.” – Romans 15:13 (NIV)

The Real Reason the Left Is Intimidated by Christians

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I’ve tried to stay quiet. I’ve tried to keep my head down and live peaceably, like Scripture teaches. But there comes a point when silence feels like complicity. And today… today I’m fed up.

I opened a news app this morning, and there it was—another headline about how “religion has no place in the public square.” Another politician, another influencer, another self-righteous talking head wagging their finger at Christians for having the audacity to believe that our faith should inform the way we live—and vote, speak, and lead.

It’s not just that they want us quiet in the pews. No, they want us silent everywhere. And if they can’t silence us? They’ll censor us.

Big Tech—those self-appointed moral overlords—are doing just that. Editing sermons, deplatforming pastors, flagging Scripture as “hate speech.” You can post nearly anything online these days—filth, lies, propaganda—but quote Romans 1, or say “Jesus is the only way,” and suddenly you’re violating “community standards.”

Whose community, exactly? Certainly not the body of Christ.

Isaiah 59:14-15 could have been written about our culture today:

“Justice is turned back, and righteousness stands far away;
for truth has stumbled in the public squares,
and uprightness cannot enter.
Truth is lacking,
and he who departs from evil makes himself a prey.”

That’s it. That’s the world we’re in now. Speak truth, and you become the hunted. Refuse to go along with the narrative, and you’re branded intolerant, dangerous, even hateful.

But I won’t apologize for standing on God’s Word. I won’t “evolve” to appease people who celebrate sin and demand silence from the saints.

I’m tired of being told that my beliefs don’t belong in public. My faith isn’t a hobby—it’s who I am. It governs my conscience, my values, my decisions. You don’t get to tell me to keep it hidden while waving your ideology like a battle flag in every school, courtroom, and platform.

It’s all so backwards. They say they’re the tolerant ones, but they can’t even tolerate a Bible verse. They say they’re for freedom of expression—unless the expression involves Christ crucified. They say they want diversity—until a Christian speaks up.

What they really want is dominion. A godless, sanitized public square, scrubbed clean of every cross, every prayer, every conviction that challenges their golden calf of self-worship.

Well, I’ve had enough.

Galatians 1:10 echoes in my mind:

“For am I now seeking the approval of man, or of God? Or am I trying to please man? If I were still trying to please man, I would not be a servant of Christ.”

I choose God. Every time. Let them mock. Let them ban me. Let them shadowban every verse I post or every truth I speak. I refuse to let them shame me into silence.

And let’s be honest, it’s not just secular progressives. It’s the spineless churches too—the ones that bend Scripture to fit trends, who’d rather be liked by the world than be holy before God. Some of them sound more like activists than ambassadors of Christ. No wonder the culture thinks they can push us around. Half the church already surrendered.

But not me. Not my house.

I’m reminded of Psalm 2:1-4:

“Why do the nations rage
and the peoples plot in vain?
The kings of the earth set themselves,
and the rulers take counsel together,
against the Lord and against His Anointed, saying,
‘Let us burst their bonds apart
and cast away their cords from us.’
He who sits in the heavens laughs;
the Lord holds them in derision.”

They think they’re strong, powerful, untouchable. But God isn’t worried. He’s not scrambling to hold onto influence in this digital age. He is sovereign, reigning, holy, and He will not be mocked.

And that’s what comforts me tonight. They may erase our sermons from their platforms, but they can’t erase truth from the hearts of believers. They can censor the message, but they’ll never silence the Gospel.

Still, I won’t pretend it’s easy. Sometimes I feel exhausted by the pressure. We’re told to speak “love,” but when love means telling the truth about sin and salvation, they call it hate. We’re supposed to be light, but the moment we shine, they call us bigots.

So I knelt by my bed tonight and prayed:

“Father, strengthen Your people. Give us courage when we’re tempted to cave. Let us be bold—not with anger, but with unshakable conviction. Let our pastors preach truth with fire. Let our teachers and writers and artists reflect Your holiness, not the world’s confusion. Protect Your Church, Lord, from compromise and corruption. May we not be seduced by applause or paralyzed by fear. Let us love fiercely, but never lie. Let us be known not just for kindness, but for courage. Amen.”

I don’t want to live a safe Christianity. I want to live a surrendered one. The kind that refuses to bow to any idol, even if that idol is wearing a rainbow badge or hiding behind a tech company’s algorithm.

The public square belongs to God just as much as the sanctuary does. Every inch of this world is His, and He’s not going to stay behind church walls just because culture says “stay out.”

So no—I won’t stop speaking. I won’t stop praying in public. I won’t stop quoting Scripture or raising my children to know the difference between truth and deception. Let them label me whatever they want. My identity is not up for debate.

The Word of God isn’t a private opinion. It’s a public declaration.

And I’ll keep declaring it.

Hey Christians: Stop Being ‘Nice’! The Dangerous Comfort of Christian Passivity

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Stop Being ‘Nice’: The Dangerous Comfort of Christian Passivity

As Christians, we are called to love and serve others. This is a commandment from our Lord, expressed clearly in scripture. In Colossians 3:12, we are instructed: “Put on then, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience.” These qualities are beautiful and essential in our walk with Christ. We are to embody kindness, compassion, and understanding in all we do, following the example of Christ Himself.

However, there is a danger in becoming too nice. While kindness and compassion are vital aspects of the Christian faith, there is a fine line between being kind and being too nice. When we cross that line, we may unintentionally harm ourselves and others, despite our good intentions.

In a world that often celebrates the idea of being “nice,” we need to pause and reflect on whether we are embracing God’s call to live with purpose and strength or if we are falling into the dangerous comfort of Christian passivity. This passive niceness can ultimately leave us feeling overwhelmed, resentful, and drained, all while we avoid the harder but necessary aspects of our faith, like confrontation and standing up for what is right.

The Problem with Being Too Nice

When we are too nice, we often prioritize the needs and desires of others over our own. It sounds loving and generous, but the reality is that consistently neglecting our own needs can lead to burnout and a lack of fulfillment. If we are constantly seeking to please others, we may forget that we too have limits, desires, and emotions that matter to God.

The danger of always putting others first is that it can create a pattern of resentment. Over time, we may begin to feel unappreciated or even taken advantage of. Proverbs 4:23 reminds us, “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” If we are not careful, neglecting our own emotional and spiritual needs can harm our hearts and ultimately hinder our ability to serve others in the way God intends.

Furthermore, being too nice often causes us to avoid difficult conversations or uncomfortable situations. We may choose to let things slide when we should be addressing them. Maybe someone has hurt us, but we avoid confrontation because we don’t want to upset them. Or perhaps we see someone behaving in a way that’s not in line with God’s will, but we hold back from speaking out because we don’t want to rock the boat. In doing so, we allow unresolved issues to fester, often causing more harm in the long run.

God calls us to be truthful and loving, not passive. Ephesians 4:15 tells us to “speak the truth in love”. This means we are to be honest, but in a way that is gentle and compassionate. We should never shy away from the hard things that need to be said, but we must say them with love, humility, and grace.

Why Setting Boundaries Is Crucial

One of the most important things we can do as Christian women is to set boundaries. Matthew 7:12 tells us, “So whatever you wish that others would do to you, do also to them.” If we want others to respect our time, energy, and emotions, we must first learn to respect ourselves by setting healthy boundaries.

Setting boundaries doesn’t mean we don’t love or serve others—it means that we are protecting ourselves so we can continue to serve in a way that honors God. Luke 6:31 says, “And as you wish that others would do to you, do so to them.” Just as we seek respect and care from others, we must learn to protect ourselves from being overwhelmed by the needs of others, lest we lose the ability to serve effectively.

If you are someone who struggles to say “no,” remember that saying “no” to something that doesn’t align with your priorities or values is not a rejection of others. It is an affirmation of your own worth and well-being. 1 Corinthians 6:19-20 reminds us that “you are not your own; you were bought with a price.” We belong to God, and we must steward our bodies, minds, and spirits wisely, which includes knowing when to set limits.

Communicate Effectively and Speak Up

Being a Christian doesn’t mean we should accept mistreatment or allow others to walk all over us. Philippians 2:4 encourages us to “Let each of you look not only to his own interests but also to the interests of others.” We are called to care for others, but we are also called to protect our hearts and be honest when something isn’t right.

When someone crosses your boundaries or takes advantage of your kindness, it’s essential to speak up. Proverbs 27:5 teaches, “Better is open rebuke than hidden love.” Confronting others in love, though difficult, is sometimes necessary to maintain healthy relationships and protect your own well-being. This doesn’t mean being rude or attacking; it simply means that you communicate with clarity, truth, and respect.

Jesus Himself modeled this for us. He didn’t shy away from hard conversations, whether it was confronting the Pharisees or addressing His disciples about their misunderstanding of His mission. Matthew 23:33 shows Jesus’ boldness in truth when He called the Pharisees out, saying, “You serpents, you brood of vipers, how are you to escape being sentenced to hell?” While this is a strong rebuke, Jesus’ actions were motivated by His love for them and His desire for them to turn from their ways. This is the example we are to follow—speaking the truth with love, even when it’s uncomfortable.

Take Care of Yourself

As women of faith, we often pour ourselves into the lives of others—our families, our friends, and our communities. But in doing so, we sometimes forget the importance of caring for ourselves. Mark 6:31 shows us that even Jesus recognized the need for rest: “And he said to them, ‘Come away by yourselves to a desolate place and rest a while.’” We need to prioritize our own emotional, physical, and spiritual health if we want to continue serving others in the way God intends.

Taking time for self-care is not selfish; it’s a form of stewardship. 1 Corinthians 10:31 tells us, “So, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God.” We glorify God by caring for the body He has entrusted to us and ensuring that we are well-rested and spiritually nourished.

Stand Up for Yourself and Others

As Christians, we are not meant to be passive observers in the face of injustice. In Luke 4:18, Jesus proclaims, “The Spirit of the Lord is upon me, because he has anointed me to proclaim good news to the poor. He has sent me to proclaim liberty to the captives and recovering of sight to the blind, to set at liberty those who are oppressed.” Just as Jesus stood up for the marginalized, we too are called to advocate for justice and truth. Whether it’s standing up for someone who’s being mistreated or speaking out against societal injustices, we must be bold in our faith.

A Prayer for Boldness and Strength

Dear Heavenly Father,
Thank You for the beautiful example of love, kindness, and strength that You’ve shown through Jesus. I pray for boldness to live according to Your will and to stand firm in my faith, even when it’s difficult. Help me to balance kindness with truth, compassion with boundaries, and service with self-care. Give me the courage to speak up when I need to, and the wisdom to know when to set healthy limits. May I always seek to glorify You in all I do.
In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Conclusion

Being kind and compassionate is at the heart of our Christian faith. However, we must also remember that God calls us to live with courage, wisdom, and strength. We are not meant to live in passivity or fear of confrontation. Let us be bold, loving, and wise, reflecting God’s love in all we do—while also taking care of our hearts and standing firm in His truth.