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Faith and Family: Why Christian Parents Should Think Twice About iPhones

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Lately, I’ve been feeling this heavy burden on my soul about the world our children are growing up in — especially when it comes to technology. As a 24-year-old Christian woman, and someone who hopes to be a mom one day, I can’t help but wonder: Are we really protecting our kids by giving them iPhones? Or are we handing them a door to temptation that can easily pull them away from God?

The temptation I’m most concerned about is pornography. It’s heartbreaking how this evil has crept into the lives of so many young people, and smartphones make it so accessible. I’ve been reading and listening to youth leaders talk about how this addiction is corrupting the hearts and minds of America’s youth. It’s so damaging because it distorts God’s beautiful design for sexuality and love.

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The Bible warns us clearly about guarding our hearts: “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it” (Proverbs 4:23). I feel like handing a child an iPhone without serious safeguards can open their hearts to things they aren’t ready for — things that can cause deep spiritual harm.

I know many parents believe that giving kids phones helps them stay connected and safe. They rely on filters and monitoring apps. But no filter is perfect. The enemy is crafty, and kids can find ways around controls. And even with protections, the very presence of a smartphone tempts their curiosity and distracts their focus from God and real life.

Love sometimes means saying no, even when it’s hard or unpopular. Proverbs 22:6 says, “Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.” That means teaching them God’s ways and protecting them until they are strong enough to walk that path themselves. It’s about setting boundaries, not just freedoms.

It’s especially painful to think of Christian children who want to honor God but end up caught in the trap of pornography. The Bible reminds us in 1 Corinthians 10:13, “No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to mankind. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out.” But sometimes, the best “way out” is keeping them from being exposed to the temptation in the first place.

I pray for parents today who feel overwhelmed. I know this isn’t easy. The culture is pushing technology into our kids’ hands earlier and earlier. But I believe faith calls us to be different. To be a light in this dark world. To protect our children’s minds, hearts, and souls from what can destroy them.

Ephesians 6:12 tells us, “For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.” Pornography and digital temptation are part of this spiritual battle. We can’t afford to be naïve.

I want to raise children who know their worth comes from Christ alone — not from likes, followers, or what they see on a screen. Psalm 139:14 says, “I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful.” I want my future kids to know this deep truth, to walk in purity and confidence rooted in God’s love.

So maybe the loving choice for Christian parents is to delay giving iPhones, or to choose strict rules about their use. It might mean uncomfortable conversations and extra effort. But isn’t that what love calls us to? Paul reminds us in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 that love is patient and kind, it does not envy or boast, it is not proud or rude. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. That sounds like what parenting should be.

10 iPhone Deeds that Lead You to The Devil

While the iPhone itself isn’t evil, the way we use it can either draw us closer to God or lead us away. It’s a tool that demands wisdom, discipline, and prayerful boundaries. May we seek God’s guidance daily to use technology in ways that honor Him, not open doors to the devil.

  1. Temptation Through Easy Access to Sin
    The iPhone gives instant access to pornography, inappropriate content, and worldly influences that can corrupt our hearts (James 1:14-15).
  2. Distracts From Prayer and Bible Study
    It’s easy to waste precious time scrolling, which steals moments that could be spent growing closer to God (Psalm 119:105).
  3. Feeds Pride and Comparison
    Social media often stokes envy and pride as we compare ourselves to others, tempting us to forget our identity in Christ (Galatians 6:4-5).
  4. Encourages Gossip and Judgment
    Texting and social media can spread harmful words, breaking the command to build others up (Ephesians 4:29).
  5. Promotes Instant Gratification
    The iPhone trains us to want everything quickly, which can fuel impatience and lack of self-control (Galatians 5:22-23).
  6. Erodes Real Relationships
    Face-to-face connection suffers, weakening God’s design for community and fellowship (Hebrews 10:24-25).
  7. Increases Anxiety and Fear
    Constant notifications can lead to worry and fear, distracting us from trusting God’s peace (Philippians 4:6-7).
  8. Blocks God’s Voice
    Noise from the phone drowns out God’s still, small voice when we fail to unplug and listen (1 Kings 19:11-12).
  9. Invites Idolatry
    When we depend more on our phones than on God, it becomes a form of idolatry (Exodus 20:3).
  10. Hinders Spiritual Growth
    Overuse can stunt our spiritual maturity by replacing God’s Word and fellowship with screens (2 Peter 3:18).

This isn’t about fear, but about faith. Faith that God’s ways are best, even when the world pulls us toward convenience or popularity. Faith that He will help us protect our children’s hearts.

I pray God will give parents courage to say no to the world’s temptations and yes to His holy path. That families will pray together, talk openly, and build strong foundations on Christ.

In the end, I trust God’s perfect design for family and love. The road may be hard, but His grace is sufficient. “The Lord is my strength and my shield; my heart trusts in him, and he helps me” (Psalm 28:7).

I want to be a mom who walks in that trust — who makes choices based on faith, not fear or cultural pressure. Who shields her children from what can destroy, while leading them to the One who saves.

Thank you, God, for your wisdom and mercy. Please help me prepare well for the day I get to raise children in your truth.

Now More Than Ever: The Sacred Calling of Motherhood

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As I reflect on Mother’s Day this year, my thoughts are filled with gratitude for the incredible woman who has shaped so much of who I am—my mother. Though I’m not a mother myself yet, I see so much beauty and purpose in the role of motherhood, not just through the lens of what I’ve experienced as her daughter, but also through the understanding that it’s a sacred, soul-shaping calling designed by God. In my own life, I’ve seen firsthand how motherhood, with all of its challenges, joys, sacrifices, and blessings, is far more than “just” a job—it is part of God’s redemptive plan.

Genesis 3:16 tells us that, as a result of the fall, women would bear children “in pain and sorrow.” While this verse speaks of the reality of the struggles that come with motherhood, it also hints at the profound purpose within that pain. It is easy to view motherhood as a series of struggles, from the physical demands of pregnancy to the exhaustion of sleepless nights and the weight of trying to raise a child who walks in God’s ways. But I’ve come to understand that, as difficult as it can be, it is a pain with purpose. This purpose goes far beyond the momentary struggles—it’s the eternal impact motherhood has on shaping future generations for God’s Kingdom.

When I think of my own mother, I see how much sacrifice and love she poured into raising me and my siblings. I know that every day, she made choices that were not just for the moment, but for eternity. Proverbs 31:28 says, “Her children rise up and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her.” And I’ve done just that. I’ve risen up to praise my mom because of the sacrifices she made in raising me, even when it wasn’t easy, even when the days felt long and the challenges felt never-ending.

Motherhood is far more than just physical labor—it’s spiritual, emotional, and relational labor. It’s a divine calling that echoes God’s redemptive plan for humanity. The Bible tells us that children are a blessing from the Lord. Psalm 127:3 declares, “Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, the fruit of the womb a reward.” There is no greater privilege than the role of a mother, and my mom has shown me the depth of that calling.

I’ve seen how my mother, though not perfect, has poured out her heart, her prayers, and her love into shaping me. She’s been a living testament to the idea that motherhood is not a task of “just” raising children, but of shaping future generations—future world-changers who will carry on God’s love and truth. Every sacrifice she made, every sleepless night, every tear shed in prayer for her children—it all matters.

I am reminded of 1 Timothy 2:15, where Paul says, “But women will be saved through childbearing—if they continue in faith, love, and holiness, with self-control.” This verse isn’t about earning salvation through childbirth, but rather, it speaks to the sanctifying process of motherhood. It refines women, molding them into more patient, selfless, and faithful beings. My mom’s love for God and us has shaped who I am today, and I know that her journey of motherhood has been one of growth, faith, and reliance on God.

There’s a deep joy in motherhood, even amid the chaos. As a daughter, I see the joy my mother finds in us—even when life is messy. Nehemiah 8:10 says, “The joy of the Lord is your strength.” And I see my mom finding joy in the Lord, even in the mundane moments of motherhood. Yes, there are piles of laundry, long nights, and tough seasons, but there are also moments of pure joy—the sound of a child’s first words, the simple joy of watching them grow and learn, and the fulfillment that comes from guiding them through life’s challenges. I know my mother found joy not just in my successes, but in the very act of raising me.

I’ve also realized that while motherhood can be painful and sacrificial, it is never without purpose. God designed motherhood as a partnership with Him in bringing life into the world. As I look to the future, I believe that even when the challenges of raising children seem daunting, God has a bigger picture in mind. Isaiah 55:8-9 reminds us, “For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, declares the Lord. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts.” As mothers, we may not always see the fruit of our labor immediately, but we can trust that God is at work in the lives of our children, even when we can’t see it.

It’s clear to me now that motherhood is a calling that goes beyond a simple role—it is a sacred vocation that shapes the future. I may not yet be a mother, but I can see that the role is one of immense responsibility and profound purpose. Motherhood is a partnership with God to shape the next generation. Each mother is raising not just children, but image-bearers of God, future leaders, and world-changers.

As I reflect on my mom and all the ways she’s shaped my life, I’m reminded of Proverbs 22:6, which says, “Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.” This verse isn’t just for mothers, but for all who have influence over the next generation. The way my mom has modeled love, faith, and strength in Christ will have a ripple effect for generations to come.

So, to my beautiful mom, and to all mothers out there, I want to say thank you. Thank you for your sacrifices, your love, your patience, and for answering God’s call to raise His children. Your work matters. It’s not “just” raising children—it’s shaping the future for God’s glory.

Prayer:

Heavenly Father, thank You for the gift of motherhood and for the example of love and strength that my mother has shown me. I pray that You continue to bless all mothers, giving them the wisdom, strength, and grace they need to raise their children in Your ways. Help me to honor them and to remember the profound impact they have on shaping the future. May we all recognize the sacred calling of motherhood and trust in Your plan for our lives. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Parents that Allow their Children to Transition suffer from Munchausen by Proxy and Need God in Their Lives

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Munchausen by Proxy (also known as Factitious Disorder Imposed on Another) is a psychological condition in which a caregiver, typically a parent, deliberately causes or fabricates illness or injury in another person (usually a child) in order to gain attention, sympathy, or validation from others, often medical professionals. This behavior is driven by the caregiver’s need to appear as if they are devoted, compassionate, or caring, often by presenting themselves as a victim of the circumstances.

The person with Munchausen by Proxy may exaggerate or fabricate the symptoms of the person in their care, or even actively cause harm to them, such as poisoning, injuring, or administering unnecessary treatments. This behavior is a form of emotional or physical abuse, and it can have severe consequences for the victim, including prolonged medical treatments or misdiagnosis.

It is important to note that Munchausen by Proxy is considered a form of child abuse, and it requires intervention by medical and psychological professionals to ensure the safety and well-being of the affected individual.

Psychological Manipulation and Control: One of the key characteristics of Munchausen by Proxy is the psychological manipulation of the child. The caregiver intentionally induces or fabricates a medical condition to gain attention from others and to assert control over the child’s health and well-being. In extreme cases, this control can lead to unnecessary surgeries, hospitalizations, and treatments. In the case of parents pushing for gender transitions for children, a similar dynamic may emerge in situations where a parent exerts disproportionate influence over the child’s decision to transition, potentially overriding the child’s natural exploration of gender or emotional readiness.

I argue that some parents may push for medical or social transitions without fully understanding the long-term consequences, either due to societal pressure or a desire to be seen as progressive and supportive. These parents may neglect the child’s true emotional or psychological readiness for such a transition in favor of fulfilling their own need for social approval or emotional validation.

Attention-Seeking and Validation: While transitioning their child, the parent seeks attention from medical professionals and others by presenting themselves as a concerned and loving parent, while concealing the fact that they are the ones causing harm to the child. This pattern of attention-seeking behavior is central to the disorder. Similarly, parents who are vocal and open about their child’s transition, while potentially coming from a place of genuine support, may also be seeking validation for their progressive views on gender identity.

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By advocating for their child’s transition, some parents might unconsciously seek recognition from their peers or from the larger societal discourse on LGBTQ+ rights. This could be especially true in environments where progressive views on gender identity are celebrated, and where parents may feel a sense of social prestige for being seen as supportive of their child’s transition. This dynamic mirrors Munchausen by Proxy in the sense that the parent’s actions are driven, at least in part, by a need to fulfill their own emotional or social desires, rather than solely by the needs and desires of the child.

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At the heart of Munchausen by Proxy is a deep psychological and emotional struggle, often involving a desire for control, attention, or validation. Many individuals with Munchausen by Proxy may have unresolved issues related to their sense of self-worth or their emotional needs, which may lead them to engage in harmful behaviors that are not only damaging to their children but also deeply destructive to their own mental well-being.

For many, the teachings of Christianity offer the possibility of redemption, which is the idea that no one is beyond forgiveness and that healing can be achieved through faith. In the context of Munchausen by Proxy, parents who are struggling with this disorder may find solace in the concept that they can be forgiven for past mistakes and that they can take steps toward emotional and psychological healing. This process of redemption could be the first step toward breaking the cycle of abuse, both for the parent and for the child. The belief in God’s grace may offer a sense of hope, that no matter how far someone has fallen, they can turn toward faith and begin the journey toward recovery.

For instance, the story of the Prodigal Son (Luke 15:11-32) is often cited as an example of redemption. In this parable, the son’s return to his father is met with forgiveness and love, despite his waywardness. This narrative can serve as a powerful metaphor for a person suffering from Munchausen by Proxy, showing that no one is beyond redemption, and that the first step toward healing is recognizing the need for change.

2. Transformation Through Jesus’ Teachings:

Jesus’ teachings emphasize the importance of compassion, love, and selflessness. Parents with Munchausen by Proxy often act out of unmet emotional needs—such as a craving for attention, control, or approval—rather than from a place of genuine concern for their children. The teachings of Jesus could provide a framework for understanding and addressing these needs in a healthier, more compassionate way.

For example, Jesus emphasizes the importance of loving others as oneself (Matthew 22:39) and putting others’ needs above one’s own (Philippians 2:4). A parent suffering from Munchausen by Proxy might learn from these teachings to shift their focus away from their own emotional needs and toward the well-being of their children. The idea of unconditional love, which is central to Christianity, can offer a parent an example of how to care for their child without selfish motives. It also offers the opportunity for the parent to experience a deeper understanding of empathy and self-sacrifice, which could begin to counteract the need for control or attention-seeking behavior.

In this sense, embracing the teachings of Jesus can be seen as a transformative experience that guides individuals toward healthier emotional and relational dynamics. This process of transformation involves recognizing one’s own brokenness, seeking healing, and learning to live in a way that is more aligned with moral and ethical principles that prioritize the well-being of others.

3. A Community of Support:

One of the core tenets of Christianity is the idea of community, or the “Body of Christ.” The church, as a spiritual community, offers a network of support, accountability, and encouragement. For someone suffering from Munchausen by Proxy, being part of a faith community can provide a sense of belonging and connection that is often missing in their lives. A supportive church environment can offer counseling, prayer, and fellowship that may help parents confront the underlying issues fueling their behavior.

Parents with Munchausen by Proxy may feel isolated, misunderstood, or stigmatized. They may struggle with feelings of guilt, shame, and self-doubt, which can perpetuate the cycle of harmful behavior. A faith community can provide the relational support necessary to address these emotions, offering a safe space to be vulnerable and seek help. Christian counselors or pastors may also provide guidance on how to address the psychological roots of MBP, such as unresolved trauma, anxiety, or low self-esteem, within the framework of faith.

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Additionally, the Christian concept of grace—that God offers unearned favor and forgiveness—can be especially healing for parents with Munchausen by Proxy. Accepting God’s grace may help them release feelings of guilt and shame and motivate them to take positive steps toward healing and healthier behavior. This sense of grace can inspire them to pursue therapy, counseling, and behavioral change with the knowledge that they are not condemned, but rather, can begin anew.

4. Moral and Ethical Guidance:

The teachings of Jesus offer moral and ethical guidelines that can help parents reflect on their behavior and make healthier choices for themselves and their children. The Christian faith provides a clear moral compass that encourages individuals to treat others with kindness, love, and respect. For parents with Munchausen by Proxy, who may be struggling with distorted views on caregiving or control, these teachings can offer much-needed clarity on the appropriate way to interact with their children.

For example, in the Gospel of Matthew, Jesus tells His followers to treat others as they would want to be treated themselves (Matthew 7:12). This principle, often referred to as the “Golden Rule,” is central to ethical decision-making. For a parent with Munchausen by Proxy, embracing this rule could help them recognize the harm they are causing and take steps toward healthier behavior. In this way, moral guidance from the Christian faith can serve as a foundational tool for parents who want to change their behavior and build healthier relationships with their children.

5. Breaking the Cycle of Abuse:

Parents with Munchausen by Proxy often have a history of unresolved emotional pain, which can stem from past trauma or unmet needs. This pain may have been passed down from generation to generation, creating a cycle of dysfunction that is difficult to break. Embracing faith and finding Jesus can be a pivotal step in breaking this cycle.

Through prayer, reflection, and seeking God’s help, parents may find the strength to confront their own unresolved issues and begin the healing process. This healing can extend to the parent-child relationship, as the parent learns to prioritize the child’s well-being and break free from the compulsion to manipulate or control. Faith offers the possibility of breaking free from generational cycles of abuse and dysfunction, replacing them with patterns of healthy attachment and love.

Conclusion:

While the idea that parents suffering from Munchausen by Proxy should find religion and Jesus is one perspective, it is important to note that faith is not a one-size-fits-all solution, and recovery from Munchausen by Proxy requires comprehensive mental health treatment. However, for those who find comfort and healing in Christianity, the principles of faith, redemption, grace, and community can play a significant role in addressing the psychological and emotional struggles that contribute to MBP.

Embracing the teachings of Jesus can offer a path toward healing, self-awareness, and transformation. Through the love, support, and guidance of faith, parents suffering from Munchausen by Proxy can begin to break free from destructive patterns, rebuild their relationships with their children, and experience personal growth and emotional restoration.

Ultimately, any approach to addressing Munchausen by Proxy—whether through faith, therapy, or other methods—should prioritize the well-being of the child, recognizing that healing and change are possible when the focus is on love, accountability, and genuine care for the child’s health and future. #MBP

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