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Parents that Allow their Children to Transition suffer from Munchausen by Proxy and Need God in Their Lives

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Munchausen by Proxy (also known as Factitious Disorder Imposed on Another) is a psychological condition in which a caregiver, typically a parent, deliberately causes or fabricates illness or injury in another person (usually a child) in order to gain attention, sympathy, or validation from others, often medical professionals. This behavior is driven by the caregiver’s need to appear as if they are devoted, compassionate, or caring, often by presenting themselves as a victim of the circumstances.

The person with Munchausen by Proxy may exaggerate or fabricate the symptoms of the person in their care, or even actively cause harm to them, such as poisoning, injuring, or administering unnecessary treatments. This behavior is a form of emotional or physical abuse, and it can have severe consequences for the victim, including prolonged medical treatments or misdiagnosis.

It is important to note that Munchausen by Proxy is considered a form of child abuse, and it requires intervention by medical and psychological professionals to ensure the safety and well-being of the affected individual.

Psychological Manipulation and Control: One of the key characteristics of Munchausen by Proxy is the psychological manipulation of the child. The caregiver intentionally induces or fabricates a medical condition to gain attention from others and to assert control over the child’s health and well-being. In extreme cases, this control can lead to unnecessary surgeries, hospitalizations, and treatments. In the case of parents pushing for gender transitions for children, a similar dynamic may emerge in situations where a parent exerts disproportionate influence over the child’s decision to transition, potentially overriding the child’s natural exploration of gender or emotional readiness.

I argue that some parents may push for medical or social transitions without fully understanding the long-term consequences, either due to societal pressure or a desire to be seen as progressive and supportive. These parents may neglect the child’s true emotional or psychological readiness for such a transition in favor of fulfilling their own need for social approval or emotional validation.

Attention-Seeking and Validation: While transitioning their child, the parent seeks attention from medical professionals and others by presenting themselves as a concerned and loving parent, while concealing the fact that they are the ones causing harm to the child. This pattern of attention-seeking behavior is central to the disorder. Similarly, parents who are vocal and open about their child’s transition, while potentially coming from a place of genuine support, may also be seeking validation for their progressive views on gender identity.

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By advocating for their child’s transition, some parents might unconsciously seek recognition from their peers or from the larger societal discourse on LGBTQ+ rights. This could be especially true in environments where progressive views on gender identity are celebrated, and where parents may feel a sense of social prestige for being seen as supportive of their child’s transition. This dynamic mirrors Munchausen by Proxy in the sense that the parent’s actions are driven, at least in part, by a need to fulfill their own emotional or social desires, rather than solely by the needs and desires of the child.

Parents that allow their children to be mutilated are doing it for themselves, and themselves only.

At the heart of Munchausen by Proxy is a deep psychological and emotional struggle, often involving a desire for control, attention, or validation. Many individuals with Munchausen by Proxy may have unresolved issues related to their sense of self-worth or their emotional needs, which may lead them to engage in harmful behaviors that are not only damaging to their children but also deeply destructive to their own mental well-being.

For many, the teachings of Christianity offer the possibility of redemption, which is the idea that no one is beyond forgiveness and that healing can be achieved through faith. In the context of Munchausen by Proxy, parents who are struggling with this disorder may find solace in the concept that they can be forgiven for past mistakes and that they can take steps toward emotional and psychological healing. This process of redemption could be the first step toward breaking the cycle of abuse, both for the parent and for the child. The belief in God’s grace may offer a sense of hope, that no matter how far someone has fallen, they can turn toward faith and begin the journey toward recovery.

For instance, the story of the Prodigal Son (Luke 15:11-32) is often cited as an example of redemption. In this parable, the son’s return to his father is met with forgiveness and love, despite his waywardness. This narrative can serve as a powerful metaphor for a person suffering from Munchausen by Proxy, showing that no one is beyond redemption, and that the first step toward healing is recognizing the need for change.

2. Transformation Through Jesus’ Teachings:

Jesus’ teachings emphasize the importance of compassion, love, and selflessness. Parents with Munchausen by Proxy often act out of unmet emotional needs—such as a craving for attention, control, or approval—rather than from a place of genuine concern for their children. The teachings of Jesus could provide a framework for understanding and addressing these needs in a healthier, more compassionate way.

For example, Jesus emphasizes the importance of loving others as oneself (Matthew 22:39) and putting others’ needs above one’s own (Philippians 2:4). A parent suffering from Munchausen by Proxy might learn from these teachings to shift their focus away from their own emotional needs and toward the well-being of their children. The idea of unconditional love, which is central to Christianity, can offer a parent an example of how to care for their child without selfish motives. It also offers the opportunity for the parent to experience a deeper understanding of empathy and self-sacrifice, which could begin to counteract the need for control or attention-seeking behavior.

In this sense, embracing the teachings of Jesus can be seen as a transformative experience that guides individuals toward healthier emotional and relational dynamics. This process of transformation involves recognizing one’s own brokenness, seeking healing, and learning to live in a way that is more aligned with moral and ethical principles that prioritize the well-being of others.

3. A Community of Support:

One of the core tenets of Christianity is the idea of community, or the “Body of Christ.” The church, as a spiritual community, offers a network of support, accountability, and encouragement. For someone suffering from Munchausen by Proxy, being part of a faith community can provide a sense of belonging and connection that is often missing in their lives. A supportive church environment can offer counseling, prayer, and fellowship that may help parents confront the underlying issues fueling their behavior.

Parents with Munchausen by Proxy may feel isolated, misunderstood, or stigmatized. They may struggle with feelings of guilt, shame, and self-doubt, which can perpetuate the cycle of harmful behavior. A faith community can provide the relational support necessary to address these emotions, offering a safe space to be vulnerable and seek help. Christian counselors or pastors may also provide guidance on how to address the psychological roots of MBP, such as unresolved trauma, anxiety, or low self-esteem, within the framework of faith.

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Additionally, the Christian concept of grace—that God offers unearned favor and forgiveness—can be especially healing for parents with Munchausen by Proxy. Accepting God’s grace may help them release feelings of guilt and shame and motivate them to take positive steps toward healing and healthier behavior. This sense of grace can inspire them to pursue therapy, counseling, and behavioral change with the knowledge that they are not condemned, but rather, can begin anew.

4. Moral and Ethical Guidance:

The teachings of Jesus offer moral and ethical guidelines that can help parents reflect on their behavior and make healthier choices for themselves and their children. The Christian faith provides a clear moral compass that encourages individuals to treat others with kindness, love, and respect. For parents with Munchausen by Proxy, who may be struggling with distorted views on caregiving or control, these teachings can offer much-needed clarity on the appropriate way to interact with their children.

For example, in the Gospel of Matthew, Jesus tells His followers to treat others as they would want to be treated themselves (Matthew 7:12). This principle, often referred to as the “Golden Rule,” is central to ethical decision-making. For a parent with Munchausen by Proxy, embracing this rule could help them recognize the harm they are causing and take steps toward healthier behavior. In this way, moral guidance from the Christian faith can serve as a foundational tool for parents who want to change their behavior and build healthier relationships with their children.

5. Breaking the Cycle of Abuse:

Parents with Munchausen by Proxy often have a history of unresolved emotional pain, which can stem from past trauma or unmet needs. This pain may have been passed down from generation to generation, creating a cycle of dysfunction that is difficult to break. Embracing faith and finding Jesus can be a pivotal step in breaking this cycle.

Through prayer, reflection, and seeking God’s help, parents may find the strength to confront their own unresolved issues and begin the healing process. This healing can extend to the parent-child relationship, as the parent learns to prioritize the child’s well-being and break free from the compulsion to manipulate or control. Faith offers the possibility of breaking free from generational cycles of abuse and dysfunction, replacing them with patterns of healthy attachment and love.

Conclusion:

While the idea that parents suffering from Munchausen by Proxy should find religion and Jesus is one perspective, it is important to note that faith is not a one-size-fits-all solution, and recovery from Munchausen by Proxy requires comprehensive mental health treatment. However, for those who find comfort and healing in Christianity, the principles of faith, redemption, grace, and community can play a significant role in addressing the psychological and emotional struggles that contribute to MBP.

Embracing the teachings of Jesus can offer a path toward healing, self-awareness, and transformation. Through the love, support, and guidance of faith, parents suffering from Munchausen by Proxy can begin to break free from destructive patterns, rebuild their relationships with their children, and experience personal growth and emotional restoration.

Ultimately, any approach to addressing Munchausen by Proxy—whether through faith, therapy, or other methods—should prioritize the well-being of the child, recognizing that healing and change are possible when the focus is on love, accountability, and genuine care for the child’s health and future. #MBP

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God Would Hate This Food

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I was just at the supermarket grabbing the weekly groceries.

I usually shop for the same things every time.

But this time, something odd caught my eye

A “low-fat, veggie-packed, healthy microwave pizza.”

This is what it said on the box.

And since I like pizza, and I like eating healthy… I bought it. And it was very tasty.

“I can’t believe it’s healthy!” I told my roommate.

“That’s because it isn’t.” She replied. “Take a look at the ingredients.”

That’s when my heart sank.

I flipped the pizza box over, and there was a whole list of unpronounceable names with tiny letters.

Monosodium glutamate, hydrogenated oils, artificial colors, artificial flavors

The list went on and on.

I kept the box so that I’m able to tell this to you.

What I had initially thought to be a healthier option was in truth a heavily processed food product.

This discovery led me to a profound reflection.

Would God be pleased with us feeding our systems, His beautiful, intricate creations, with such foods?

I don’t think He would.

Let’s cast our minds back to Adam and Eve, our ancestors in faith, and their time in the Garden of Eden.

They enjoyed a variety of fruits, vegetables, and grains. Food provided directly by God.

There were no chemical additives, no preservatives or artificial flavors.

Their food was pure, wholesome, and naturally nourishing.

Nowadays, however, more and more people are opting for ultra-processed foods.

These foods are often sold to us as “healthy” but they have been altered from the way that God gave them to us.

And they carry a lot of health risks.

Ultra-processed foods can cause obesity, heart disease, and even cancer.

While these foods might be inexpensive and convenient, the question remains

Are they worth the risk to our health, our well-being, and the physical vessels that God has gifted us?

Of course not.

I fell for it just a few hours ago with this “healthy” pizza I bought

But this could be a nudge from God.

To aid me in warning my fellow Christians about this type of food.

I am grateful I have the power to do that with my Christian blog.

And I am grateful to you for reading this.

The next time you’re grocery shopping, consider opting for a bag of steel-cut oats instead of a box of sugary cereal. 

Or perhaps choose fresh chicken breasts rather than the breaded, frozen variety. 

These small adjustments can add up to significant health benefits over time.

So let us remember to steer away from those “sneaky” ultra-processed foods.

Don’t Fall For Our “Woke” Politicians’ Lies

When was the last time Biden spoke the truth?

If he’s not blabbering, he is always saying that we are “our economy is thriving.”

Meanwhile unemployment has skyrocketed.

Children are either starving or about to starve.

And homeless people have swarmed the streets.

If there is one thing that our “woke” politicians can do well, it’s lying.

They lie to the public to make it seem like they are doing a good job.

They purposely spread false information to distract us from the truth.

And they control the major media.

It’s becoming increasingly difficult to differentiate between fact and fiction.

But this doesn’t mean we are doomed.

There is an easy way to shield ourselves from misinformation, and that’s with fact-checking.

Fact-checking is an essential step in ensuring that what we see is accurate and reliable.

To become a more effective fact-checker, it’s essential to diversify your sources.

Establish a go-to list of reliable media outlets, resources on the web, and expert organizations that can allow you to verify the accuracy of the information you come across.

And always question what you find out.

Next, pay close attention to the details of what you’re reviewing.

Are there any inconsistencies or discrepancies? 

Do they show where they found their info?

If something seems odd or unsupported, take the time to investigate further.

Misinformation evolves and adapts.

Media are becoming sneakier and sneakier.

It’s essential to stay up-to-date with the latest techniques and strategies they use.

Continuously educate yourself on fact-checking methods.

And make it a habit to verify the information you consume.

(Even if it comes from a source you trust).

If we stay vigilant, then there is no way to be taken advantage of.

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Ways to Better Enjoy Reading the Bible

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The Word of God is full of history, wisdom, poetry, warnings, and truth. When approached with a heart open to the Holy Spirit’s whispers and a mind focused on understanding, the Bible can be one of a Christian’s greatest resources and treasured objects. But it also takes time. It can be confusing. It can feel like a chore and an obligation sometimes, particularly in seasons of spiritual difficulty or when life gets busy.

For some people, they never had an opportunity to build in the habit to have daily quiet time to invest in studying the Bible, and struggle to start. There are many ways the world can serve as a distraction as well.

God wants us to be in His Word, spending time with Him, and getting to know Him through that time and study; one of the Psalms reads, “More to be desired are [God’s precepts in the Word] are they than gold, even much fine gold; sweeter also than honey and drippings of the honeycomb” (Psalm 19:10). Studying the Bible should be a sweet experience, so finding ways to make it a better experience can help someone enjoy their time in the Bible more.

Here are a few ways to better enjoy reading the Bible:

Create a Space for Reading Your Bible

Some people find it easier to read under certain conditions. Some of them prefer to be in dark corners with overhead light, or others in a window with full natural light. Creating a personalized space with your favorite chair and good light that you want to spend time in can make reading the Bible a treat.

There are also scientific studies that suggest studying in the same place and environment can help with retention. Making a space dedicated to spending time alone with God and His Word is also inviting the Lord into your home in a real way.

Make It a Challenge

For the person who thrives in competition – or just likes to go the extra mile – finding ways to make reading the Bible a challenge can make it more engaging. Maybe see how many verses in a chapter you can memorize. Try reading a book in a month. Challenge yourself to read one of the dense, or more challenging texts like Isaiah or Ezekiel.

There are also free Bible reading challenges you can find online that can push your boundaries, get you to stretch yourself, and maybe even get a few friends to participate so you can have discussion.

Follow a Bible Reading Plan Themed around a Concern or Topic of Interest

When people go through phases of life, sometimes they need to focus on passages of the Bible that can speak to whatever they are experiencing.

Struggling with doubt? Find passages and stories that focus on confidence in God’s plan. Want to learn more about Israel’s time in exile? Spend your time in Daniel, Ezra, and Nehemiah. Need a little more joy in your life? Seek out passages that speak about joy.

Have Background Music Playing

Whether white noise helps a person focus, or they find music spiritually engaging, playing music can enhance time in the Word. Some people may turn to light, ambient music with no words, while others may want an uplifting worship tune. Some people cannot focus in silence, so music helps their brain engage and focus on the task at hand. It can also make quiet time a more sensory experience.

Do It with a Friend or Family Member

Being able to share thoughts, feelings, and ideas with another person may make reading the Bible a more fun experience. Have a coffee date once a week with a friend to exchange notes and observations. Make it a family experience, with everyone in the family reading the same verses or passages and then discuss it over dinner.

The Bible can act as a wonderful tool for bonding between people, and the company can provide an avenue for discovering more about God’s Word. The Holy Spirit illuminates different things to different people, so the opportunity to share how the Lord is working in each individual’s life through their study can be fulfilling.

Memorize Your Favorite Verses

Memorization can be difficult, but rewarding. Lots of people want to have better recall for Bible verses, so using quiet study time as an opportunity to focus on learning certain passages by heart can be an effective way to start the memorization process. Whether you learn better by repeating aloud, reading the same thing several times, or writing something down, engaging with the Bible in a tactile way with the intent to embed it in your heart and mind is always a worthwhile pursuit.

Conclusion:

Everyone is different and has their own approach to making an activity engaging and enjoyable. Not every tip is going to work for every person, but each one is worth giving a try. Experimenting with when you read the Bible can have an impact as well. The Bible is a sweet and wonderful resource for Christians, so making sure that reading it is not a chore is important to spiritual growth. Find more ways to make Bible study a pleasure, and not an obligation.