I had a moment where I could’ve gossiped. It would’ve been easy. It would’ve even felt good for a fleeting second, like scratching an itch that I know will only make the wound worse.
I was with two girls from work during lunch break, and we got to talking about another coworker—let’s call her T. They started talking about how T always shows up late and how the manager seems to overlook it. It was subtle at first, like one of those little threads you pull without thinking—but then it turned into a full unraveling. Her personal life. Her clothes. Even her laugh.
I opened my mouth. I was ready to add my two cents. But the Holy Spirit stopped me cold.
It hit me like a whisper and a warning at the same time: “Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying…” (Ephesians 4:29).
I bit my tongue. I literally had to sip my water to avoid talking. And then I changed the subject. “Hey, has anyone heard about the fundraiser next week?” It was awkward. They gave me this look like I was being too holy or too sensitive. I wanted to feel offended, but instead I felt peace. And conviction.
Later, in my quiet time with the Lord, I opened my Bible and I wept. I wept not because I messed up—but because I almost did. I wanted to. I wanted to gossip. I wanted to belong.
And that scared me.
Gossiping feels like a soft temptation. It doesn’t look evil. It doesn’t come with fangs or a pitchfork.
It comes with coffee and eye-rolls and shared secrets. But behind its charm is a deep demonic agenda: division, destruction, and death of character.
Proverbs 16:28 says, “A perverse person stirs up conflict, and a gossip separates close friends.”
Lord, forgive me for ever being that person. Forgive me for the times I entertained gossip or contributed to it, even if I didn’t start it. I see now—it’s not about who started it, it’s about who stopped it.
And I want to be a woman who stops it.
But let’s be real, Lord. That’s hard.
I live in a world where gossip is currency.
It’s how people bond, how social ladders are climbed. Even Christian circles are not exempt. And that’s what breaks my heart the most. I’ve seen churches divided over whisper campaigns. I’ve seen pastors slandered, friendships ruined, ministries halted… all because someone thought they knew something and couldn’t keep it to themselves.
So today, I’m confronting it—within myself first. This is war.
Because the devil doesn’t come just to tempt us with big sins. He loves the ones that look small but rot us from the inside out. Gossip is one of them.
James 3:6 reminds me, “The tongue also is a fire, a world of evil among the parts of the body. It corrupts the whole body…” And if we’re not careful, we start setting other people’s lives on fire, while standing there pretending we’re just holding a candle.
I come before You humbled and hungry for righteousness. I don’t want to use my words to hurt. I want to use them to heal. If I can’t speak life, let me speak silence. Give me discernment to recognize gossip even when it’s disguised as “concern.” Give me courage to change the subject, walk away, or call it out in love.
Convict me, Holy Spirit, whenever I begin to stray. I give You full access to my tongue, my heart, and my motives. Cleanse me. Refine me. Make me holy, even in my conversations. Amen.
I’m learning that resisting gossip isn’t just about what I say, but why I want to say it. If I feel better about myself by tearing someone else down, that’s not just sin—it’s a wound I haven’t allowed God to heal yet.
So now, before I open my mouth about someone else, I’m going to ask:
Would I say this if they were here?
Is this true, necessary, and kind?
Is this building someone up or tearing someone down?
If I can’t answer all three with integrity, I won’t say a word.
I also want to do better about speaking for people instead of about them.
If I see a friend being slandered, I will defend her. If I hear a rumor, I’ll kill it with truth. If someone starts gossiping, I will not just ignore it—I’ll challenge it. With grace, but also with boldness.
We’re not called to be passive Christians. Jesus flipped tables. He confronted sin. And I will, too—starting with my own mouth.
If you want to honor God, guard your tongue. Gossip won’t make you more loved or more respected. It may feel good in the moment, but it rots your witness and wounds your soul. Choose the harder road. You’ll never regret silence, but you may regret every careless word.
Matthew 12:36 says, “But I tell you that everyone will have to give account on the day of judgment for every empty word they have spoken.”
That verse both terrifies and empowers me. Because it reminds me that every word I speak matters. Every single one.
So tomorrow, Lord willing, when I face another chance to gossip—or to steer a conversation away from it—I will remember this prayer, this verse, and this vow. I will speak life. I will choose holiness over popularity. And I will remind the devil that he can’t have my tongue.
n the hustle and bustle of our everyday lives, it’s easy to forget that we, as Christians, are called to serve—not only within the walls of the church but also in the world around us. Volunteering is a beautiful expression of Christ’s love, allowing us to live out our faith in tangible ways. When we serve others, we are not just fulfilling a worldly duty, but we are fulfilling God’s divine purpose for our lives. Through volunteering, we reflect Christ’s love and contribute to the building of His Kingdom here on earth.
The Foundation of Volunteering: Christ’s Example
Jesus Christ was the ultimate servant. He came not to be served, but to serve others. In Mark 10:45, Jesus Himself says, “For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give His life as a ransom for many.” Jesus, in His life on earth, displayed the most profound example of selfless service. He healed the sick, comforted the brokenhearted, and showed compassion to those whom society often neglected. Every act He did was one of love, humility, and service.
When we volunteer, we follow the example set by Christ. Just as He gave of Himself for the good of others, we, too, are called to give of our time, talents, and resources to serve. Volunteering isn’t just about performing tasks; it is about reflecting the love of Christ in a broken world.
Volunteering: A Christian Calling
In Matthew 25:35-40, Jesus paints a vivid picture of service in His parable of the sheep and the goats. He speaks of feeding the hungry, clothing the naked, and visiting the sick as acts of service done for Him. He says, “Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.” Volunteering, whether it’s through direct service to the needy or supporting a cause that uplifts others, is more than just an act of kindness—it is an act of worship.
Volunteering is not something that should feel like a burden or obligation but rather a privilege. In Romans 12:1, Paul urges us to present our bodies as living sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God, which is our spiritual act of worship. Serving others—whether through local outreach programs, supporting missions, or simply offering a helping hand to those in need—is a form of worship that glorifies God.
The Spiritual Benefits of Volunteering
When we serve others in love, we grow spiritually. The Apostle Paul encourages us in Galatians 5:13, “You, my brothers and sisters, were called to be free. But do not use your freedom to indulge the flesh; rather, serve one another humbly in love.” Volunteering in this way aligns our hearts with God’s will, drawing us closer to Him. We also become more sensitive to the needs around us, which cultivates a heart of empathy and compassion—traits that reflect Christ’s nature.
Moreover, volunteering is a way to practice humility. Jesus, the King of the universe, humbled Himself by washing His disciples’ feet. In John 13:14-15, He says, “Now that I, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you also should wash one another’s feet. I have set you an example that you should do as I have done for you.” When we humble ourselves to serve, we become more like Christ. The act of serving others shifts our focus from ourselves to others, allowing us to live out the true essence of Christian love.
Through volunteering, we also find purpose. Each of us has been uniquely gifted by God, and when we serve others, we often discover more about the talents and abilities that God has entrusted to us. In 1 Peter 4:10, Peter reminds us, “Each of you should use whatever gift you have received to serve others, as faithful stewards of God’s grace in its various forms.” Volunteering allows us to use our gifts to glorify God and fulfill the purpose He has for our lives.
The Impact of Volunteering on Others
While volunteering is beneficial to us, it also has a profound impact on those we serve. Our acts of service can be a beacon of Christ’s light in a world that desperately needs hope. The Apostle Paul writes in Philippians 2:4, “Let each of you look not only to his own interests but also to the interests of others.” When we volunteer, we give others a glimpse of God’s love through our actions. This selfless love can transform lives, offering comfort and hope to those who may be experiencing difficult circumstances.
Through volunteering, we become the hands and feet of Christ. We are His instruments in a world that is lost without His light. Each small act of kindness has the power to point others toward Jesus. In Matthew 5:16, Jesus tells us, “Let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.” As we serve, we allow God’s love to shine through us, drawing others to Him.
Overcoming Challenges in Volunteering
There are times when volunteering can feel overwhelming. We might encounter challenges, such as limited time, feelings of inadequacy, or the temptation to become discouraged. However, God promises to strengthen us for the tasks He calls us to. In 2 Corinthians 12:9, Paul writes, “But he said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.’ Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me.”
When we feel inadequate, we must remember that we are not called to serve in our own strength but in God’s. He equips us for every good work (2 Timothy 3:17). We can trust that He will provide the resources, energy, and patience we need to serve faithfully.
As we seek to live out Christ’s love through volunteering, let us pray for guidance, strength, and a heart filled with compassion:
Heavenly Father,
Thank You for the privilege of serving You through the service of others. Lord, You have called us to be Your hands and feet in a broken world, and we ask that You fill us with the love and compassion that reflect Your heart. Help us to serve humbly and joyfully, with no thought of recognition but only to glorify You.
Give us the strength to overcome any challenges that may come our way, and help us to remain steadfast in our calling to serve. May our acts of service point others toward Your love, and may we be a light in the darkness. We pray that You will continue to guide us and equip us for the work You have set before us. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Seeking God’s Call: How Christians Can Discover Where to Volunteer
As Christians, we are called to serve the world around us, and there are countless places where we can volunteer to make a difference. Volunteering not only allows us to live out Christ’s love, but it also helps build up the body of Christ and extend His Kingdom on earth. But the question often arises: where do Christians go to volunteer, and how can they find opportunities that align with God’s calling?
One of the first places to look for volunteer opportunities is within your local church. Churches often have ministries and outreach programs in place that are directly aligned with their mission to serve others. Whether it’s through food banks, shelters, children’s ministries, or community outreach events, churches provide a structured environment where Christians can get involved and serve. Many churches also offer short-term mission trips, which can be a great way to volunteer in a broader, global context. Simply asking your pastor or church leadership about available opportunities can be an excellent starting point to get connected.
Additionally, there are numerous Christian organizations and nonprofits that focus on specific needs, from homelessness to disaster relief, from healthcare to supporting persecuted Christians around the world. These organizations often have volunteer portals on their websites where Christians can learn about opportunities to serve, either locally or internationally. Websites like VolunteerMatch, ChristianVolunteering.org, and those of major humanitarian groups (such as World Vision or Samaritan’s Purse) offer searchable databases of volunteer opportunities. Engaging with such organizations allows you to serve with like-minded believers and work toward causes that align with your Christian values.
Social media and church bulletins are also valuable resources for discovering where to volunteer. Many local community organizations or faith-based groups post volunteer needs on social media platforms, inviting Christians to get involved. Church announcements and newsletters may also highlight opportunities to serve within the church community or the broader local area. Sometimes, opportunities may be as simple as serving at a soup kitchen or assisting at a local crisis pregnancy center.
Above all, knowing where to volunteer often comes down to listening for God’s voice. Praying about your desire to serve and asking the Holy Spirit for guidance is crucial. It’s not just about finding a place to volunteer—it’s about finding where God wants you to serve. Whether it’s through a one-time event or a long-term commitment, God’s calling often reveals itself as we step forward in faith. And through prayer and reflection, God can help you discern whether a particular volunteer opportunity is the right fit for your gifts, time, and heart.
In the end, volunteering is about responding to God’s love by sharing it with others. Whether through your church, community organizations, or other Christian ministries, there are abundant opportunities to serve, grow, and reflect Christ’s love in action. By seeking God’s guidance, connecting with your faith community, and utilizing various resources, you can find the right place to serve and make an eternal impact in the lives of others.
Conclusion
Volunteering is more than just an act of service; it is a powerful way to live out the love of Christ in the world. As we serve, we grow in our faith, reflect God’s love, and fulfill our purpose as followers of Jesus. Let us take heart and remember the words of Jesus in Acts 20:35: “It is more blessed to give than to receive.” Through volunteering, we not only bless others but also receive the blessings that come from walking in obedience to God’s calling.
I know I’ve been spending a LOT of energy on the mainstream’s “Christian-Hate”, and still today I just can’t shake the frustration—the kind that sits in your chest and refuses to leave. Lord, help me. Because I’m angry. Not bitter. Not vengeful. But righteously angry. I want to see truth restored, not twisted. I want my faith—Your truth—to be treated with the same respect this industry gives to every other belief system under the sun.
So if you’re tired with my “Hollywood Hates Jesus” posts, then you may want to stop reading here because I have more to say that I just have to get off my chest!
I watched another so-called “film” this past weekend, another Hollywood production that not only missed the mark but went out of its way to mock and misrepresent Christianity. I’m not just talking about lazy writing or shallow characters. I’m talking about a deeper hostility—one that feels intentional, bitter, and proud in its mockery of everything I believe.
I’m tired of turning on the TV or going to the movies and seeing Christians painted as fools, hypocrites, or outright villains. Hollywood doesn’t just misunderstand our faith—it loathes it. And they’re no longer subtle about it. They make clergy into creeps, Christians into lunatics, and symbols of Christ into tools of horror. It’s not art; it’s propaganda.
“Woe to those who call evil good and good evil, who put darkness for light and light for darkness.” — Isaiah 5:20
When did we become the acceptable punching bag? Why is it that every religion under the sun gets handled with velvet gloves, while Christianity is dragged through the dirt with a grin? It’s as if mocking Jesus is a badge of honor in that world. And they don’t care how many faithful people they insult along the way.
I remember when films like The Ten Commandments or Ben-Hur told stories of faith with dignity. Now, Christian characters are punchlines. Or worse, they’re monsters. The Last Temptation of Christ was one thing—blasphemous as it was—but now it’s practically tame compared to what they churn out today.
“They are darkened in their understanding and separated from the life of God because of the ignorance that is in them due to the hardening of their hearts.” — Ephesians 4:18
Part of me wants to shout. To demand why Christians keep turning the other cheek while we’re caricatured and vilified. Where is the righteous anger? Where is the defense of what is holy? Jewish communities would never tolerate this kind of slander. Muslims wouldn’t sit quietly either. Yet we’re expected to “love and forgive” while Hollywood scorches sacred ground for sport.
And yes, I know—our battle isn’t against flesh and blood. I know we’re called to respond with grace. But does grace mean silence? Does forgiveness mean pretending this isn’t calculated, harmful, and wrong?
“Blessed are those who are persecuted for righteousness’ sake, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.” — Matthew 5:10
So I pray, not just for strength, but for courage. Courage to speak out. Courage to not support media that spits in Your face. And courage to pray, even for those who do the mocking.
Because in the end, You are not mocked. You are still King. And no script, no actor, no studio exec will ever change that.
Some Deeper Thoughts On Hollywood’s Problem with Christianity
In recent years, a troubling trend has emerged in Hollywood: the portrayal of Christian faith and values in a negative light. While some films have depicted religious characters positively, these instances are increasingly rare. More often, Christian clergy are shown engaging in morally reprehensible behavior, and Christian symbols are associated with characters who prey upon society. This pattern raises concerns about a pervasive anti-Christian bias within the entertainment industry.
Actor Rainn Wilson, known for his role in The Office, recently commented on this issue after watching an episode of HBO’s The Last of Us. In the episode, a character named David, who is portrayed as a Bible-reading pastor, turns out to be a villainous cannibal. Wilson expressed his frustration on Twitter, stating, “Could there be a Bible-reading preacher on a show who is actually loving and kind?” His sentiment reflects a broader concern that Hollywood often depicts religious figures in a negative light. The New York Sun+3iBelieve+3home+3anglicanmainstream.org+1home+1
This portrayal is not new. Historically, films like Cape Fear depicted Christian characters in a negative light, with a villainous character who is a self-proclaimed “Killer Christian from Hell.” Such portrayals contribute to a narrative that associates Christianity with violence and hypocrisy. Eternal Perspective Ministries
As Christians, it’s essential to approach these portrayals with discernment. While we should not be surprised by negative depictions of our faith in secular media, we must remember that our identity is rooted in Christ, not in the opinions of the world. Jesus warned us that we would face persecution for His sake:
“If the world hates you, keep in mind that it hated me first.” — John 15:18 (NIV)
Despite these challenges, we are called to respond with love and truth. The Apostle Paul reminds us to be gentle and respectful in our interactions, even when faced with opposition:
“But in your hearts revere Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect.” — 1 Peter 3:15 (NIV)
🎬 5 Films Noted for Critical or Controversial Portrayals of Christianity THAT TOOK ME 3 MINUTES TO THINK OF BECAUSE THERE ARE SO MANY (1980–2025)
1. The Last Temptation of Christ (1988)
Directed by Martin Scorsese, this film presents a fictional account of Jesus Christ’s life, including a portrayal of him experiencing human temptations. The film faced significant criticism from Christian groups for its unconventional narrative and depictions of sacred themes.
2. The Da Vinci Code (2006)
Based on Dan Brown’s bestselling novel, this film suggests that Jesus Christ was married to Mary Magdalene and that the Catholic Church has concealed this truth. The film was controversial among Christians for its speculative and critical take on religious history.
3. Dogma (1999)
Directed by Kevin Smith, this satirical comedy features fallen angels attempting to return to Heaven, challenging the established doctrines of the Catholic Church. The film was met with criticism from religious groups for its irreverent treatment of sacred subjects.
4. Jesus Camp (2006)
This documentary explores a Pentecostal summer camp for children, capturing their intense religious experiences. While not overtly anti-Christian, the film was criticized by some for portraying evangelical Christianity in a manner they found extreme or unflattering.
5. Sinners (2025)
Directed by Ryan Coogler, this horror film set in Depression-era Mississippi incorporates African spiritual traditions and critiques the role of Christianity in colonization and systemic racism. The film has been noted for challenging the dominant narrative of white Christianity.
A Prayer for Strength and Discernment
Heavenly Father,
We come before You with hearts heavy for the misrepresentation of Your name in the media. We ask for Your wisdom and discernment as we navigate a world that often misunderstands and misrepresents our faith. Help us to respond with grace and truth, reflecting Your love in all circumstances.
Grant us the strength to stand firm in our beliefs, even when faced with opposition. May we be a light in the darkness, showing the world the hope and peace found in You alone.
We pray for those who create and consume media, that their hearts and minds may be open to the truth of Your Word. May they come to know You and honor You in all that they do.
In Jesus’ name, we pray.
Amen.
As we continue to engage with media, let us do so with a spirit of discernment, holding fast to the truth of God’s Word and reflecting His love in all our interactions.
A FINAL PRAYER FOR THE SCUM OF HOLLYWOOD IN HOPES THEY OPEN THEIR HEARTS TO CHRIST
Heavenly Father, You are the God of mercy, truth, and transformation. Today, I lift up to You the hearts of those who shape culture and influence so many—our artists, actors, writers, and decision-makers in Hollywood. Lord, I ask that You soften their hearts toward Your people and open their eyes to the love and truth of Christ. Help them see Christians not through the lens of misunderstanding or mockery, but through the light of Your grace, compassion, and integrity.
May Your Holy Spirit stir within them a curiosity for Your truth and a hunger for righteousness. Let bridges be built, not walls. Let stories be told that honor faith, inspire hope, and reflect Your light in this world. May revival reach even the most unlikely corners of the entertainment industry. In the name of Jesus, the Light of the world, we pray.
Amen.
📖 Scripture Verses:
Matthew 5:16 (NIV) “In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.”
Ezekiel 36:26 (ESV) “And I will give you a new heart, and a new spirit I will put within you. And I will remove the heart of stone from your flesh and give you a heart of flesh.”
1 Peter 3:15 (NIV) “But in your hearts revere Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect.”
Romans 12:21 (NIV) “Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.”
I’m just going to say it plainly—Christians are better people than liberals. Fact. I know that might sound blunt, but it’s what I truly believe.
It may not be a popular opinion—and certainly not one that should exist—but deep down, I truly believe that following Christ leads us to live differently, and yes, better. Not in a self-righteous or prideful way, but in a real, practical, moral way that honors God and brings order to life.
It’s not just about religion—it’s about values. About believing in truth that doesn’t change with trends. About loving life from the womb to old age. About protecting children, defending family, honoring marriage the way God designed it, and understanding that our identity comes from Him—not from feelings, politics, or public opinion.
What I see coming out of liberal ideologies today breaks my heart. I see abortion praised like it’s an achievement. I see confusion taught to children as if it’s truth. I see God’s name mocked and His Word ignored. And then, anyone who disagrees—even kindly—is labeled hateful, dangerous, or backwards.
No, Christians aren’t perfect. I know I’m far from it. But the difference is that we strive to live under God’s authority. We confess our sins. We try to grow. We don’t celebrate rebellion—we repent from it. And I don’t see that same humility or hunger for righteousness in the liberal worldview. That’s the key difference.
I believe God has set His people apart for a reason. Not to feel superior—but to be a light. And maybe that’s the real truth behind what I’m feeling. Not that Christians are “better” in an arrogant sense, but that we are called to live better—by a higher standard. A holy one.
I don’t say this with hate. I say it because I grieve for the direction this world is heading. I see people pushing so hard to be their own gods—deciding for themselves what’s right and wrong—and I know exactly where that road leads: emptiness. Darkness. Destruction.
So if that makes me sound “judgmental,” so be it. I’d rather be judged by the world than be silent in the face of evil. I want to be someone who speaks truth, even if my voice shakes. Someone who chooses righteousness, even when it’s unpopular. Someone who honors Jesus above all, even when the world tries to silence me.
I know liberals won’t agree with this. They probably never will. But I pray they come to know the freedom that only Christ can give. Because once you know Him—truly know Him—you see life so differently. You value people. You protect the innocent. You want to live holy. You want to serve, not dominate. Love, not control. And that’s something no political platform can ever replicate.
So yes—I’ll say it again: I believe Christians live better lives, because we are living under the leadership of the only One who is truly good.
And for that, I’m not sorry.
Romans 12:2 “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—His good, pleasing and perfect will.”
Ephesians 5:11 “Have nothing to do with the fruitless deeds of darkness, but rather expose them.”
Isaiah 5:20 “Woe to those who call evil good and good evil, who put darkness for light and light for darkness…”
John 15:18-19 “If the world hates you, keep in mind that it hated Me first. If you belonged to the world, it would love you as its own. As it is, you do not belong to the world, but I have chosen you out of the world.”
Galatians 6:9 “Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.”
Psalm 1:1-2 “Blessed is the one who does not walk in step with the wicked or stand in the way that sinners take… but whose delight is in the law of the Lord, and who meditates on His law day and night.”
Munchausen by Proxy (also known as Factitious Disorder Imposed on Another) is a psychological condition in which a caregiver, typically a parent, deliberately causes or fabricates illness or injury in another person (usually a child) in order to gain attention, sympathy, or validation from others, often medical professionals. This behavior is driven by the caregiver’s need to appear as if they are devoted, compassionate, or caring, often by presenting themselves as a victim of the circumstances.
The person with Munchausen by Proxy may exaggerate or fabricate the symptoms of the person in their care, or even actively cause harm to them, such as poisoning, injuring, or administering unnecessary treatments. This behavior is a form of emotional or physical abuse, and it can have severe consequences for the victim, including prolonged medical treatments or misdiagnosis.
It is important to note that Munchausen by Proxy is considered a form of child abuse, and it requires intervention by medical and psychological professionals to ensure the safety and well-being of the affected individual.
Psychological Manipulation and Control: One of the key characteristics of Munchausen by Proxy is the psychological manipulation of the child. The caregiver intentionally induces or fabricates a medical condition to gain attention from others and to assert control over the child’s health and well-being. In extreme cases, this control can lead to unnecessary surgeries, hospitalizations, and treatments. In the case of parents pushing for gender transitions for children, a similar dynamic may emerge in situations where a parent exerts disproportionate influence over the child’s decision to transition, potentially overriding the child’s natural exploration of gender or emotional readiness.
I argue that some parents may push for medical or social transitions without fully understanding the long-term consequences, either due to societal pressure or a desire to be seen as progressive and supportive. These parents may neglect the child’s true emotional or psychological readiness for such a transition in favor of fulfilling their own need for social approval or emotional validation.
Attention-Seeking and Validation: While transitioning their child, the parent seeks attention from medical professionals and others by presenting themselves as a concerned and loving parent, while concealing the fact that they are the ones causing harm to the child. This pattern of attention-seeking behavior is central to the disorder. Similarly, parents who are vocal and open about their child’s transition, while potentially coming from a place of genuine support, may also be seeking validation for their progressive views on gender identity.
By advocating for their child’s transition, some parents might unconsciously seek recognition from their peers or from the larger societal discourse on LGBTQ+ rights. This could be especially true in environments where progressive views on gender identity are celebrated, and where parents may feel a sense of social prestige for being seen as supportive of their child’s transition. This dynamic mirrors Munchausen by Proxy in the sense that the parent’s actions are driven, at least in part, by a need to fulfill their own emotional or social desires, rather than solely by the needs and desires of the child.
Parents that allow their children to be mutilated are doing it for themselves, and themselves only.
At the heart of Munchausen by Proxy is a deep psychological and emotional struggle, often involving a desire for control, attention, or validation. Many individuals with Munchausen by Proxy may have unresolved issues related to their sense of self-worth or their emotional needs, which may lead them to engage in harmful behaviors that are not only damaging to their children but also deeply destructive to their own mental well-being.
For many, the teachings of Christianity offer the possibility of redemption, which is the idea that no one is beyond forgiveness and that healing can be achieved through faith. In the context of Munchausen by Proxy, parents who are struggling with this disorder may find solace in the concept that they can be forgiven for past mistakes and that they can take steps toward emotional and psychological healing. This process of redemption could be the first step toward breaking the cycle of abuse, both for the parent and for the child. The belief in God’s grace may offer a sense of hope, that no matter how far someone has fallen, they can turn toward faith and begin the journey toward recovery.
For instance, the story of the Prodigal Son (Luke 15:11-32) is often cited as an example of redemption. In this parable, the son’s return to his father is met with forgiveness and love, despite his waywardness. This narrative can serve as a powerful metaphor for a person suffering from Munchausen by Proxy, showing that no one is beyond redemption, and that the first step toward healing is recognizing the need for change.
2. Transformation Through Jesus’ Teachings:
Jesus’ teachings emphasize the importance of compassion, love, and selflessness. Parents with Munchausen by Proxy often act out of unmet emotional needs—such as a craving for attention, control, or approval—rather than from a place of genuine concern for their children. The teachings of Jesus could provide a framework for understanding and addressing these needs in a healthier, more compassionate way.
For example, Jesus emphasizes the importance of loving others as oneself (Matthew 22:39) and putting others’ needs above one’s own (Philippians 2:4). A parent suffering from Munchausen by Proxy might learn from these teachings to shift their focus away from their own emotional needs and toward the well-being of their children. The idea of unconditional love, which is central to Christianity, can offer a parent an example of how to care for their child without selfish motives. It also offers the opportunity for the parent to experience a deeper understanding of empathy and self-sacrifice, which could begin to counteract the need for control or attention-seeking behavior.
In this sense, embracing the teachings of Jesus can be seen as a transformative experience that guides individuals toward healthier emotional and relational dynamics. This process of transformation involves recognizing one’s own brokenness, seeking healing, and learning to live in a way that is more aligned with moral and ethical principles that prioritize the well-being of others.
3. A Community of Support:
One of the core tenets of Christianity is the idea of community, or the “Body of Christ.” The church, as a spiritual community, offers a network of support, accountability, and encouragement. For someone suffering from Munchausen by Proxy, being part of a faith community can provide a sense of belonging and connection that is often missing in their lives. A supportive church environment can offer counseling, prayer, and fellowship that may help parents confront the underlying issues fueling their behavior.
Parents with Munchausen by Proxy may feel isolated, misunderstood, or stigmatized. They may struggle with feelings of guilt, shame, and self-doubt, which can perpetuate the cycle of harmful behavior. A faith community can provide the relational support necessary to address these emotions, offering a safe space to be vulnerable and seek help. Christian counselors or pastors may also provide guidance on how to address the psychological roots of MBP, such as unresolved trauma, anxiety, or low self-esteem, within the framework of faith.
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Additionally, the Christian concept of grace—that God offers unearned favor and forgiveness—can be especially healing for parents with Munchausen by Proxy. Accepting God’s grace may help them release feelings of guilt and shame and motivate them to take positive steps toward healing and healthier behavior. This sense of grace can inspire them to pursue therapy, counseling, and behavioral change with the knowledge that they are not condemned, but rather, can begin anew.
4. Moral and Ethical Guidance:
The teachings of Jesus offer moral and ethical guidelines that can help parents reflect on their behavior and make healthier choices for themselves and their children. The Christian faith provides a clear moral compass that encourages individuals to treat others with kindness, love, and respect. For parents with Munchausen by Proxy, who may be struggling with distorted views on caregiving or control, these teachings can offer much-needed clarity on the appropriate way to interact with their children.
For example, in the Gospel of Matthew, Jesus tells His followers to treat others as they would want to be treated themselves (Matthew 7:12). This principle, often referred to as the “Golden Rule,” is central to ethical decision-making. For a parent with Munchausen by Proxy, embracing this rule could help them recognize the harm they are causing and take steps toward healthier behavior. In this way, moral guidance from the Christian faith can serve as a foundational tool for parents who want to change their behavior and build healthier relationships with their children.
5. Breaking the Cycle of Abuse:
Parents with Munchausen by Proxy often have a history of unresolved emotional pain, which can stem from past trauma or unmet needs. This pain may have been passed down from generation to generation, creating a cycle of dysfunction that is difficult to break. Embracing faith and finding Jesus can be a pivotal step in breaking this cycle.
Through prayer, reflection, and seeking God’s help, parents may find the strength to confront their own unresolved issues and begin the healing process. This healing can extend to the parent-child relationship, as the parent learns to prioritize the child’s well-being and break free from the compulsion to manipulate or control. Faith offers the possibility of breaking free from generational cycles of abuse and dysfunction, replacing them with patterns of healthy attachment and love.
Conclusion:
While the idea that parents suffering from Munchausen by Proxy should find religion and Jesus is one perspective, it is important to note that faith is not a one-size-fits-all solution, and recovery from Munchausen by Proxy requires comprehensive mental health treatment. However, for those who find comfort and healing in Christianity, the principles of faith, redemption, grace, and community can play a significant role in addressing the psychological and emotional struggles that contribute to MBP.
Embracing the teachings of Jesus can offer a path toward healing, self-awareness, and transformation. Through the love, support, and guidance of faith, parents suffering from Munchausen by Proxy can begin to break free from destructive patterns, rebuild their relationships with their children, and experience personal growth and emotional restoration.
Ultimately, any approach to addressing Munchausen by Proxy—whether through faith, therapy, or other methods—should prioritize the well-being of the child, recognizing that healing and change are possible when the focus is on love, accountability, and genuine care for the child’s health and future. #MBP
I kept the box so that I’m able to tell this to you.
What I had initially thought to be a healthier option was in truth a heavily processed food product.
This discovery led me to a profound reflection.
Would God be pleased with us feeding our systems, His beautiful, intricate creations, with such foods?
I don’t think He would.
Let’s cast our minds back to Adam and Eve, our ancestors in faith, and their time in the Garden of Eden.
They enjoyed a variety of fruits, vegetables, and grains. Food provided directly by God.
There were no chemical additives, no preservatives or artificial flavors.
Their food was pure, wholesome, and naturally nourishing.
Nowadays, however, more and more people are opting for ultra-processed foods.
These foods are often sold to us as “healthy” but they have been altered from the way that God gave them to us.
And they carry a lot of health risks.
Ultra-processed foods can cause obesity, heart disease, and even cancer.
While these foods might be inexpensive and convenient, the question remains
Are they worth the risk to our health, our well-being, and the physical vessels that God has gifted us?
Of course not.
I fell for it just a few hours ago with this “healthy” pizza I bought
But this could be a nudge from God.
To aid me in warning my fellow Christians about this type of food.
I am grateful I have the power to do that with my Christian blog.
And I am grateful to you for reading this.
The next time you’re grocery shopping, consider opting for a bag of steel-cut oats instead of a box of sugary cereal.
Or perhaps choose fresh chicken breasts rather than the breaded, frozen variety.
These small adjustments can add up to significant health benefits over time.
So let us remember to steer away from those “sneaky” ultra-processed foods.
Don’t Fall For Our “Woke” Politicians’ Lies
When was the last time Biden spoke the truth?
If he’s not blabbering, he is always saying that we are “our economy is thriving.”
Meanwhile unemployment has skyrocketed.
Children are either starving or about to starve.
And homeless people have swarmed the streets.
If there is one thing that our “woke” politicians can do well, it’s lying.
They lie to the public to make it seem like they are doing a good job.
They purposely spread false information to distract us from the truth.
And they control the major media.
It’s becoming increasingly difficult to differentiate between fact and fiction.
But this doesn’t mean we are doomed.
There is an easy way to shield ourselves from misinformation, and that’s with fact-checking.
Fact-checking is an essential step in ensuring that what we see is accurate and reliable.
To become a more effective fact-checker, it’s essential to diversify your sources.
Establish a go-to list of reliable media outlets, resources on the web, and expert organizations that can allow you to verify the accuracy of the information you come across.
And always question what you find out.
Next, pay close attention to the details of what you’re reviewing.
Are there any inconsistencies or discrepancies?
Do they show where they found their info?
If something seems odd or unsupported, take the time to investigate further.
Misinformation evolves and adapts.
Media are becoming sneakier and sneakier.
It’s essential to stay up-to-date with the latest techniques and strategies they use.
Continuously educate yourself on fact-checking methods.
And make it a habit to verify the information you consume.
(Even if it comes from a source you trust).
If we stay vigilant, then there is no way to be taken advantage of.
Yes, even as believers, we may sometimes find ourselves wrestling with questions.
And perhaps, feeling just a little bit like Doubting Thomas.
The disciple who, when told of Jesus’s resurrection, responded, “Unless I see the nail marks in his hands and put my finger where the nails were, and put my hand into his side, I will not believe” (John 20:25).
In his story, lies the key to overcoming doubt.
But before we go any further, let’s clear something up.
Having doubts doesn’t mean you’re a bad Christian.
It simply means that your faith is maturing. It’s an indication that you are not afraid to ask difficult questions and seek the truth.
The story of Thomas teaches us a profound lesson, one that can help us mature and reinforce our faith in God.
The vital moment in that story comes a week after Jesus’s resurrection.
Jesus appears before his disciples once more.
And this time, Thomas is present.
He sees the wounds of Christ, hears His voice, and Jesus lets him reach out and touch his wounds.
“My Lord and my God!” Thomas exclaimed.
This moment of recognition, of truly seeing Jesus, triggers a complete transformation in Thomas.
And therein lies our lesson.
The key to unwavering faith is not in eliminating doubts, but in seeking a personal, transformative encounter with Christ.
Everyone’s journey is unique.
We each encounter Christ in different ways.
And it is through these encounters that we, like Thomas, come to recognize Jesus for who He is. Our Lord and our God.
So if you ever wrestle with doubts, don’t despair.
Remember the story of Thomas. Reach out to Christ. Seek a personal encounter with Him.
Prayer is an essential part of the Christian faith.
However, many people may not realize that there are different types of prayer and ways to incorporate them into your daily routine.
I’ve gathered every type in this newsletter, so you can easily refer to it in times of need.
Adoration.
Through adoration, we express our love and worship of God.
This can be done through singing, reading scripture, or simply meditating on His goodness and greatness.
A simple way to perform this type of prayer is by starting your day by reading a Psalm or listening to worship music while you’re getting ready for work.
Confession
This is where we acknowledge our sins and ask for forgiveness.
Everyone needs to set time apart at least a few minutes a day for this.
It can be done either in silence or by sharing them with a loved one or accountability partner.
Thanksgiving
When we perform this type of prayer, we express gratitude for the blessings in our lives.
You can do that by writing a gratitude list, saying a prayer of thanks before a meal, or simply reflecting on the things you are grateful for throughout the day.
Everyone has things to be grateful for, even if it is hard to see it sometimes.
Intercession
Through Intercession, we pray for others.
As Christians, we have to help people receive God’s love through our prayers.
Some people haven’t let God in their lives.
Others are going through hardships or diseases.
We need to pray for everyone, just like we do for ourselves.
So think would need your help, and sacrifice some of your time and energy for them.
Supplication
This is when we make requests of God.
You can ask for help with a specific issue you have or simply ask for guidance or wisdom.
Prayer is a powerful tool for connecting with God and bringing peace and purpose to our lives.
If you incorporate every type in your daily routine, you will quickly see the difference it makes in your mental and physical health.
So try to set some time aside for each one every day.
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